Red Pill: Bitches Are All the Same / MRA Circle Jerk
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Mist
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I tell her to go fuck herself all the time but it doesn't really help, and I can't bring myself to actually bail on her.
Her house went through a devastating flood in 2010, and four other major natural disasters since. It was barely even livable for 7 months after the flood but I had no where else to put her and her sick dog while I got the house fixed up. My stepfather left about 2 years ago when his father died. I successfully fought the insurance company and got about $35k which was a lot better than the 0 dollars they tried to pay out.
In order for my mother to sever all financial ties with my stepfather so they can split, this house needs to be in condition to sell it, and 35k won't pay contractors to do all the work that needs to be done, so it has to be done by me using whatever materials we can find at liquidators or at renovation places that salvage stuff from all the rich people houses that are always being demolished on the beach.
I really don't want to be her enabler but I can't figure out what else to do. I've been paying all the bills with my normal income from the university while putting away money from my MTGO business in an account where she can't find it, so I have get-out-of-dodge money if shit gets any worse or so I have money to start a life after all this is over. It's just depressing the amount that I've sacrified for her and she doesn't seem to appreciate it in the slightest given how much disregard she has for my wellbeing. Now that the dog is dead there's really nothing keeping me here, and these hardwood planks might just be the last straw.
Her house went through a devastating flood in 2010, and four other major natural disasters since. It was barely even livable for 7 months after the flood but I had no where else to put her and her sick dog while I got the house fixed up. My stepfather left about 2 years ago when his father died. I successfully fought the insurance company and got about $35k which was a lot better than the 0 dollars they tried to pay out.
In order for my mother to sever all financial ties with my stepfather so they can split, this house needs to be in condition to sell it, and 35k won't pay contractors to do all the work that needs to be done, so it has to be done by me using whatever materials we can find at liquidators or at renovation places that salvage stuff from all the rich people houses that are always being demolished on the beach.
I really don't want to be her enabler but I can't figure out what else to do. I've been paying all the bills with my normal income from the university while putting away money from my MTGO business in an account where she can't find it, so I have get-out-of-dodge money if shit gets any worse or so I have money to start a life after all this is over. It's just depressing the amount that I've sacrified for her and she doesn't seem to appreciate it in the slightest given how much disregard she has for my wellbeing. Now that the dog is dead there's really nothing keeping me here, and these hardwood planks might just be the last straw.
Mist
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Famm
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TrollfaceDeux
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iannis
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At least those prefab hardwood floors aren't difficult to install, they'll add value, they can be done as a room by room project, and they'll cover up a lot of the gunk. I'd even help you put them in for a booze-wage. That sort of work can be pleasant when it's not a million degrees outside with 100% humidity.
Chris
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When I was 17 I got severely depressed and told all my friends on MSN about how depressed I was and how my life was shit, by the time I was 21 they were really fucking sick of my shit and I had to move out of the house we then shared. They were not psychologists but I blamed them anyway.
A year of pills and a few years of growing up later I realise that I was a boring self centred person. If I had spent my time developing my friendships (thinking about what THEY want) instead of complaining and playing WoW then I would have gotten everything I thought my life was missing. Why would you go out of your way to help someone who only takes from you? With people moving away for work and not on my doorstep anymore it's now really hard to redevelop those friendships, I can only hope that I stay positive and manage to climb out of the hole I dug myself.
I can hardly imagine the hell which you live in, being like I was or worse for twice as long without starting recovery yet. You need to sort yourself out.
Mist
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It's just solid planks with flanges, not the engineered prefab kind. I'm so fucked.
Mist
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I was definitely depressed, but I'm not depressed anymore, just angry. I had to come out of it by necessity. Once my stepfather moved out, I had to make more money to cover more bills, while also maintaining and fixing the inside of the house and maintaining 2+ acres of property outside. When you're depressed you just don't have the energy for that.
Also my stepdad is a huge fucking dick and left his $3k lawn tractor in the shed but won't give me the keys for it, so I've had to push mow the entire property for the past 2 years.
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