Red Pill Thread 2.0: Neckbeard Revenge

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Himeo

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Betas gon betas: Beta watching himself slowly being cucked can't even come up with the idea of possibly leaving

We've been together for 7 years, love each other, planned a future based on common dreams, etc. We live together, still have the lease until November. We have cats, we share a bank account, a car, our lives are very intertwined. I know that she loves me and that won't ever change. Right now we are on a break, which, I discovered was a mistake to do.

Around May I was sensing something off about her. I didn't know what and I just let it built up rather than talk about it. I sent her a text while she was on a trip with a friend that I'm afraid we are going to break up but I don't want to. This was a bad move on my part but I was an emotional wreck while she was gone on her trip. She tried to get a ride back ASAP to see me to talk about it but came back the day she planned and we talked and patched things up. It was then that we talked about if we were different people, this would be when we get married (we're both against marriage but are devoted to each other).

It was around this time that a much older guy (40s) living with his daughter in another part of the US added her on Facebook because he used to live in our city and he likes the same band and as a mutual friend. During May and June, he would comment a lot on her pictures and stuff. She described him as annoying and socially weird. Other than that, June was great for us. We couldn't have been happier.

During July we traveled separately to visit our families for a while. It was during this time that he began to message her a lot. And they talked a lot. When we got back at the end of July, she started to be very distant and said she wanted to be more independent. This issue is reasonable and one I fully support. She had started to mention it before. She was just in a difficult place because she was also getting depressed about her future, career-wise and whatnot.

I could read all the signs and discovered that she was looking at articles and finding suggestions about being in love with two people at once. I asked her about this and she told me who it was and that it meant nothing because it's Facebook and saw that he was just very lonely.

I said that we can work through things in the relationship and make it better but she needs to stop talking to him first. First she said she deleted their conversation out of respect for me but I kept pressing her to just unfriend him. She was very hesitant and it took her days and she lied about doing it. I got really angry that she couldn't just do it. This was when it felt like utter betrayal that in my anger I knocked some furniture over. She said that scared her and I quickly regretted it. But she eventually unfriended him.

However, my trust was wrecked and later while her laptop was opened, I just took the chance to block him from her. I thought if it really was over then this wouldn't matter in the end. It only made me discover later that she just unblocked him and kept talking to him.

Things were tense and I really didn't know what to do. I felt like leaving her right then when I found out they were still talking. There were many times during this period where I was an inch from completely leaving. Every time I hinted this, she cried and was devastated. She begged me to stay, that she would delete her Facebook and just wanted everything to be back to normal.

I left to stay with a mutual, close friend for a week. He talked to her during this time and everything he relayed to me suggested that she just wanted to overcome this and get back together with me. I then decided to spend some time with my family away from her for a bit. Before I left I went to see her. She says that when she talks to friends for advice, she begins with "I fucked up, I hurt the person I love.../destroyed the best thing that ever happened to me." I said that this break may help us. We took a walk in the park, had meaningful kisses and said we love each other. This was at the very beginning of September. I thought that we left on a good note.

Yet during this time apart, she flies to visit the guy for a weekend. I know our finances and so know that he paid for it. He initiated the whole thing to begin with and so I'm sure he just gave her this opportunity that she accepted. (Maybe to get seeing him out of her, maybe to truly follow through on her feelings to overcome this, but maybe also out of genuine love for the guy) Nevertheless, I see this entire thing as this guy just grooming her to develop feelings for him.

During this break, we had no/minimal contact. I'm just not too sure what to do when I get back. I know that one can just forget a whole relationship for a moment to see happiness in someone else, especially when you are in a mental/emotional state where you need that happiness. But one cannot just throw away a whole relationship forever. That's what I don't get. I just don't see how talking online for a month could even challenge 7 years of love together, you know?

I guess I just need general advice on this. When I see her, should I keep saying that she should just cut off all ties with this guy and say that I feel that he's just using her, all the while we can reset things and work things through together? Or do we try to work things through while she keeps talking to him? I feel any hint of jealousy or ultimatum from me would just push her away and that if I'm understanding then it puts me in a positive light, shows her that I really love her and make her decide to do the right thing.

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tl;dr:After 7 years, girlfriend encounters older guy on Facebook, he talks to her a lot for a month. She thinks she has feelings for him and she goes to visit him on his dime during our break period. We both love each other still and I just need to know the best way to approach this when we see each other again.
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^ Yet another story added onto the pile of tens of thousands of stories of men who failed to behave in a way that generates genuine desire in their LT spouse. The Redpill would've saved him.

Himeo_sl said:
I just don't see how talking online for a month could even challenge 7 years of love together, you know?
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Of course it can. For all you men out there who read this thread, ignore any and all advice the white knight brigade spews from their cuckolded mouths and swallow sometruthregarding the question above. It's important to understand how things work; not howyou thinktheyshouldwork.
 
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Dumar_sl

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22yo I mentioned earlier just left. I should copy pasta her texts here, as they're pretty telling regarding sex for women at that age now.
 
Gryphe

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Antarius_sl said:
http://faculty.chicagobooth.edu/emir...s/identity.pdf

It's 50 pages, And it has many good charts and graphs. Regarding how women pick their mates based on income.

The okcupid data isn't presented as a scientific paper, but someone linked the relavent chart in the grown up forum. Or you can get the information out of the book Dataclysm.
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I'll bite.

Let's take one of the principle data tables from this paper:

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Focus on the R-squared column. That column tells you how well their model (which includes whether or not the wife earns more money) predicts the dependent variables. In this case, the dependent variables were whether respondents 1) said their marriage was happy, 2) said their marriage was in trouble, and 3) said they had discussed separation.

R-squared values of 1 mean a perfect fit of the model to the data.
R-squared values of 0 mean the model is complete garbage.

None of the R-squared values in that table are more than 0.05. I've seen random, complete garbage models get better fits than that purely by chance.

What a horrible fucking paper.
 
gremlinz273

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If I was a girl, I'd be fed up with you pussified clowny bitches that can't seem to get your head out of the screen. Go on insult me, make me laugh, you faggot shit. What's the latest meme pretty boy, send me more of those funny cat pics. Let's hook up, get married, so I can take all your shit. Instead of taking a look around, you're going head down into an obvious trap. You fucking peasants.
 
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R-Squared is just a measure of the regression line. Just because there are a lot of outliars in the data, doesn't mean that the data does not support the conclusion.

Obviously not EVERY woman that makes more than her man will divorce him. Not every woman that makes more than her man will be unhappy.
Are Low R-squared Values Inherently Bad?

No! There are two major reasons why it can be just fine to have low R-squared values.

In some fields, it is entirely expected that your R-squared values will be low. For example, any field that attempts to predict human behavior, such as psychology, typically has R-squared values lower than 50%. Humans are simply harder to predict than, say, physical processes.

Furthermore, if your R-squared value is low but you have statistically significant predictors, you can still draw important conclusions about how changes in the predictor values are associated with changes in the response value. Regardless of the R-squared, the significant coefficients still represent the mean change in the response for one unit of change in the predictor while holding other predictors in the model constant. Obviously, this type of information can be extremely valuable.

Furthermore, if your R-squared value is low but you have statistically significant predictors, you can still draw important conclusions about how changes in the predictor values are associated with changes in the response value. Regardless of the R-squared, the significant coefficients still represent the mean change in the response for one unit of change in the predictor while holding other predictors in the model constant. Obviously, this type of information can be extremely valuable.
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They have a statistically significant predictor... If the woman makes more money than the man, she is 50% more likely to report being unhappy, and 50% more likely to get a divorce.

I mean jesus you completely discounted the VERY NEXT PAGE? Where the R-Squared value for their divorce model is a .08?

Don't judge women on what they SAY they do, only on what they ACTUALLY do.. Look at the difference in values between what a woman says and what a husband says for a "happy" marriage.

It's twice as easy to predict their behavior than it is to predict what they will say.

They will lie and tell you everything is good, even if it is not.
When they say it's bad, it's less likely for the husband to know that the wife is unhappy.
They ESPECIALLY lie when the husband is present for the questions and they were asked if she wanted to seperate.
But the actual behavior is worse than what they "say".
 
gremlinz273

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Well, the word around town is that the tremendous economic explosion from way on high is going pretty much as expected. The cats are retiring and sailing away, funds that never existed can never be touched. A democracy vacated, an aristocracy upheld.
 
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Abefroman_sl said:
More redpill advice on a Friday night lol.
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Posting while on break at my job which puts me in the top 2% of men by income.
I may be overweight too, but at least I bring the beta buck tingles. Maybe that's why I have so much more success with women by compensating with even worse behavior than I thought possible.

I mean, I fucked a girl, Thursday night...not even an hour later told her I had a date on Saturday with another woman, today she was texting me how much she misses me and wishes I could come over and cuddle instead of working, how much she was looking forward to seeing me on Monday.

The girl I am seeing on Saturday calls me "sir" in her text messages sometimes. I teased her about a selfie she sent me (it still had the tags showing on her new shirt so I told her that she had to remove them before coming to see me because I wouldn't be seen out in public like that), she was just looking for validation about her new clothes and looking sexy, I gave her no such validation and instead demonstrated higher value by telling her I went shopping too and picked up the new iphone today, and she called me "dear" while defending herself about the tags still showing... I gave her shit about her calling me dear like she was an old lady or a waitress, and she said that she reserves sir for when she's feeling sexual and doesn't say it very often... not even 5 minutes later she called me sir when she wished me a good night as I came in to work and she went to bed.
 
gremlinz273

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Tickle tickle, Sigmund Freud. "What is Synchronicity?"

Are you so lost in games that you have forgotten the greatest story ever told?
 
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Firewater Burns_sl

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Dumar_sl said:
^ Yet another story added onto the pile of tens of thousands of stories of men who failed to behave in a way that generates genuine desire in their LT spouse. The Redpill would've saved him.
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"Tens of thousands" out of roughly 150 million English speaking men; lets see, even if I am generous and say 9 "tens," that would give me 90,000/150,000,000, or 0.0006. That's only native speaking men, maybe his native tongue is German, or French (we all know the French of beta fags, right?). Congratulations on making a point about a significantly less amount of people than a usual standard deviation in most studies.


P.S. Look, I can make up bullshit to counter your bullshit too!
 
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