Ill be honest here dudes. If I knew in the past what I know now, not even the whole redpillthing but just life experience, I would of been way happier when I was younger. I had so many opportunities that I either didnt see for what they were, didnt notice the subtle hints that I missed on or just blatantly dismissed them altogether... But im sure anyone here could say that.
One example I specifically remember this hot 17 yr old I met while working as a bagger for some grocery store when I was 15. She was constantly flirting with me, I realize this now. We even spent the whole summer hanging out together, she would drive me around, pick me up, go to beaches, hang out at her place alone while the parents were away,etc...but I never made a move on her, fuck she probably thought I was gay as fuck by the end of the summer. Beta as fuck or as they would call an orbiter or whatever. Now eventually I did learn and started to break out of my shell. But this did not come easily and it basically came as a self revelation that I had to change the game up. But it would of been way easier finding the redpillforums and taking some hints, rather than self experimentation that took the better years away from me. But those were the days before the intranets, and while Im sure there was some literature about this, even back then, Its not like I was the library going type to get hints on what I was doing wrong.
There is a lot of truth to what is said in the redpill. I was always thought to be the nice dude, kind, respectable. Get a good job, make lots of money, buy a house, and they will come. Well eventually they did, but my youth was wasted in a web of lies. Yep, I was beta as fuck. And Ill be the first to admit it. Dont get me wrong, dudes. I hate the black or white, no gray area, the redpillpaints. Of course people are different, but just like with anything, you take it in with a grain of salt.