Woah. We just had a conversation at work about this Friday.
My son sent a "sexy" pic to some chick. (It really wasn't bad). He's 14 now. She is 17. The girl sent him titties. I nipped that in the bud fast.
That night I straight up told him. No sex. No sex/kids until you graduate college as far as I am concerned. I was extremely stern. I actually grabbed his arm. I made sure he understood why. His mother thought I handled it all wrong. She thought I should talk about the birds and the bees, and not explain to him why these little thots would want to get with him at age 14.
Did I overreact? Probably, but I REALLY want to make sure he understands how serious his life and future is to me, and should be for himself.
People at work heard the convo of me and his mother disagreeing. They thought I should be buying him condoms, not scaring him into thinking all girls are evil. I personally think me buying him condoms condones sex btw.
Thoughts?