I'm always suspect of girls who have kids out of wedlock. Not from a moral/religious perspective I just always question their intelligence. You cannot come to the rational decision that having a child is a good idea unless you are in a very, very committed relationship and if a kid "just happens" chances are you are too stupid to understand birth control (or you sperm burgled -- which is even worse.) Since most kids born out of wedlock are the latter I prefer to just steer clear of that situation.
The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread
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Yes the atheist is taking a religious stance on refusing to date girls too dumb to take birth control
I agree completely with this. The proportion of pregnancies that come as a fluke of responsible birth control use compared to irresponsible usage / secretly stopping / etc massively favors the latter. Plus ambitious women are almost by definition going to get an abortion if any fluke were to occur. I recognize it may be an unfair assumption, but it's a damn effective heuristic.
Absolutely. I've slept with a lot of young women with kids, but for the most part none of them were datable because of the above.
What do you guys think about a girl who is attractive, seems pretty cool, has a good job, etc letting you fuck on the first date? I don't really care, if she seems cool enough to date I would see where it goes. I'm a ho as is and always trying to fuck anyway. If she turns out to be a ho, oh well it's a good fuck buddy, it's a win win really.
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What he said.
Fucked on the first date:
Crazy Ex
ExWife
probably not the best samples to pull but both ended up being pretty long term stuff...
only ended up having to wait 24 hours on ClimberGirl because she came unprepared (i.e. with stubble).
This one only lasted a few weeks so anecdotal evidence is anecdotal.
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So I asked the girl i'm interested in if she wanted to hang out tomorrow and she said sure. Invited me to a movie via text a bit later... but she is going with another guy we work with. Do I say fuck it, take a rain check and write her off or do I roll with it and see what happens?
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Just got home from a blind/first date at a Doug Stanhope show, lol. Chick was a super cute red headed skinny little milf. Lately I've been asking out a lot hotter girls than I normally troll for on POF so I felt like I should play it cool and do it mostly sober. I got a good vibe, but I'm the worst at making a move if I'm not hammered. It's especially tough if your first date is at a crowded, dark, loud comedy club. So the awkward walk out to her car ended up in a hug instead of me trying to maul her, I just didn't have a good read and I over think the shit out of things if I'm not medicated. FOREVER ALONE bros, forever alone.
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You are so far into the friend zone you can't even see the other side. Don't let that hope turn into despair, don't let that despair turn into alcoholism. Just run and never look back. As a meth user you should be able to run like a motherfucker
I just kiss girls anytime I go on a first date. I've had a lot of them send me a text after the date before I do saying "I'm glad you kissed me" or "I enjoyed kissing you". The worst that can happen is they give you a smooch when you try and you know where you stand. If they are feeling you, they will have been waiting for you to do that shit for a while. The one hot chick lately that I didn't kiss told me a week later she had the exclusive talk with someone etc and I was like FUCK I should have kissed her. As far as playing it cool being sober etc, I've found that being real chill and not expressing how much you're into a chick helps so much. I know a lot of people aren't into acting fake or whatever, but that is one thing I've found really works to your favor and isn't really fake.
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Have you ever tried running after you take a few hits of meth?
Anyways, I figured as much about the friend zone. Don't worry, I already find my comfort in Johnny Walker and marijuana so I don't have to worry about this turning me into an alcoholic!
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