Yeah it is just a sex thing. Movies and stuff like that in between but it was mutually casual. You're right though, it's not really my problem and it's looking for trouble. However, I'm breaking it off because it has made me entirely uncomfortable. I don't know why I care that she's married but I do for some reason. I feel like Seinfeld discovering tears for the first time.
I have been rejecting a proposal to be the 'thing on the side' for the same married woman for the last 8 years. I've told her; In another universe where you aren't already married with kids, we would make a great couple and have a ton of fun, I am sure. But we aren't in that universe. The shitbox that would be opened if I acquiesced to that is too much and totally not worth it. Nevermind the other guy, fuck him, what keeps me from doing it is: Would any of my friends trust me around their wives ever again? Losing the friendships of those couples would suck. They might still be my friend on a surface level, but they would not allow themselves to get too close to a known homewrecker.
The irony, perhaps, is the only motivation she'll have to tell him is if you dump her. She won't want to get caught if you're still with her, because she'll have to give it up. If she gets dumped by her dick on the side, though, is usually when women lose their shit and fess up and she'll probably cast you in such a light the husband will think it was your fault and you took advantage of her and try to kick your ass. So then, you're out pussy and get your ass beat for doing the "right" thing. But hey, you'll have your self-respect as you're picking teeth up off the ground, so that's something.
Are you a used car salesman or a minister? It's been a while since I've heard a keep doing shitty things because else you'll suffer. Worst argument ever - even if it does cost us some entertainment. Comon, it's numbers.
