The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

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Sutekh

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Dabamf_sl said:
"Get proof that it was consensual" is the dumbest shit I've read this year.

Also, sutekh, you may want someone to tell you in that position, but you're making the mistake of thinking all or most people are like you. Most people would probably say youre a liar or blame you somehow. Maybe the "right" thing to do is tell him, but the smart thing to do is stop seeing her and keep your mouth shut unless he asks you specifically
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Mah Wakandan JC said it best.

"Character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking. There are too many people who think that the only thing that's right is to get by, and the only thing that's wrong is to get caught."
 
iannis

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It's a responsibility to take on. There are plenty of ways it could be fine. "Yeah, I kind of figgured. Thanks for being a bro and tellin me, now I know what I have to do" kind of stuff. Numbers getting the shit knocked out of him for banging the guys wife is probably the least-bad bad way it could go. What if he's abusive, but smart? What if he thanks numbers for telling him then goes home and beats the everloving hell out of her? (And if you do tell him numbers, and he throws a punch at you, have the decency to not duck it). What if his dick don't work? What if he's gay?

Is it the right thing to have him beat her? Is it the right thing to out him? That's the kind of question you have to start asking when you talk about "do the right thing". Numbers has a better read on the possibilities and potentials (although apparently not a MUCH better one, been fucking a married chick for a year and didn't know it), but still better.

I'm all for parsimony. I'm for parsimony. Parsimony.

But it's not alwaysthatsimple. In fact it rarely is. I dunno that ignorantly blundering around in other people's relationships is the goto goodguygreg position. Kinda what got him into the mess in the first place.

Just get the fuck out and remember to ask the next one if she's married.
 
Phazael

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In all seriousness, if you do not know the guy, just walk away as nicely as possible. I would want to know if I were him, but if he is deluded enough to not notice his wife is getting some dick on the side, chances are he is not going to be receptive to anything you might have to say to him. Maybe he knows and does not care, but obviously you have an ethical issue with it anyway, so his knowledge or lack thereof is in no way relevant. The fact that she basically did not clue you in from day one that she was married tells me she is not stepping out with permission, for certain. I would, in your place, break it off with her and tell her exactly why you are uncomfortable with the situation and hope she does not go psycho on you.

Realistically, what will happen is she will just find another dude to fuck on the side and you will move on to some other fuck buddy, until her husband eventually catches her or she gets completely bored with cheating or maintaining the fa?ade. Either way, do NOT want to be the current dick du jour when that happens, because if her marriage blows up you will get sucked into the drama. You should be raking in college age pussy while you are in your prime and avoiding adult drama like this at all cost. You don't know the guy, so you do not have to tell him. Breaking it off when you could go on fucking her behind is back is honorable enough for this situation. This guy has to sort his own shit out and notice that his wife is stepping out. And quite honestly, if she is doing it with people where he works, she is asking to get caught so I am guessing she wants out of her marriage at some point. Or she is just fucking crazy. Either way, calmly walk away in as friendly a manner as you can.
 
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The obvious sensible thing to do is cut it off. If you want to cover your ass as far as ramifications go...(seriously why are you worried about the ramifications of ending it, they are severely less dangerous than the ramifications of continuing) just send her a text explaining that you are ending it because you found out she's married. She'll respond in some way and bingo there is your "proof" it was above board on your end.
 
Gavinmad

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Iannis_sl said:
(And if you do tell him numbers, and he throws a punch at you, have the decency to not duck it).
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What the fuck kind of retarded advice is this? If Numbers stopped fucking her after he found out she was married, he hasn't done a thing wrong. If he tells the dude and the dude gets violent, fucking curb stomp his ass.
 
popsicledeath

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First, don't send her a fucking text saying anything she'll see as important on any level. I don't care if you kids these days communicate that way. Women are still women and she'll be able to sit there all by herself stewing over it and planning her [husband's] attack.

Call her over, sit her down, tell her you're not comfortable because you have more respect for her than that, and then do your best to control the fallout. If you're smart, she leaves thinking it was her idea to call things off and that it's a good thing she did. But at least hold her there (literally if necessary) until she's out of the emotionally-out-of-control stage of things, and at least back into the could-be-emotionally-out-of-control-at-any-moment stage that most women typically run at.

My advice is to still just bore her. Maybe even say you're not as comfortable as before, but really enjoy her company and want to be friends to see how you feel in the future and see how things go with that. Basically, the ol' friend-zone switcheroo. If she takes offense, then she has to admit she's a dirty, cheating slut. If she doesn't take offense, she'll get bored (if you don't cave), because nobody in the fucking world actually wants to be friends with the person they WERE fucking on the side no strings attached, especially after revealing some pretty heavy strings coming from her husband.
 
Johnny53

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popsicledeath

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Haast_sl said:
He can still fuck his wife if he's bored or broke.
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You're boring me just talking about his wife!

And it's not about sex... it's about... fuck if I know, but if it were just about sex then I'm sure he wouldn't be fucking the worst, most sketchy place ever to get sex? The rush he's getting from whores isn't from the sex.
 
Gavinmad

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popsicledeath_sl said:
You're boring me just talking about his wife!

And it's not about sex... it's about... fuck if I know, but if it were just about sex then I'm sure he wouldn't be fucking the worst, most sketchy place ever to get sex? The rush he's getting from whores isn't from the sex.
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The rush he's getting is his immune system gasping out a deathrattle.
 
Johnny53

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so here is the deal...........i have been seeing Capri for about a month....I give her $40 per day, 20 in the morning 20 in the evening, she knows how much i set aside for her and that as of this monday i will be down to my last hundred, she claims she loves me and wants to see me even if the money runs out......i told her that if i can't help her, then i don't want to see her, because it would be difficult see her suffering,
 
popsicledeath

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Johnny49_sl said:
so here is the deal...........i have been seeing Capri for about a month....I give her $40 per day, 20 in the morning 20 in the evening, she knows how much i set aside for her and that as of this monday i will be down to my last hundred, she claims she loves me and wants to see me even if the money runs out......i told her that if i can't help her, then i don't want to see her, because it would be difficult see her suffering,
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That ought to have bought some tits/ass/pussy pics, man. I know you're just trying to help her out, but you've got to think of this community as well. We can't support you supporting her if you don't support our support, man.

Honest question: if you're not paying for it, is it still desirable for you. Like, if you had the money, but she didn't want it to be with you, would you still see her?
 
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Dabamf_sl

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popsicledeath_sl said:
First, don't send her a fucking text saying anything she'll see as important on any level. I don't care if you kids these days communicate that way. Women are still women and she'll be able to sit there all by herself stewing over it and planning her [husband's] attack.

Call her over, sit her down, tell her you're not comfortable because you have more respect for her than that, and then do your best to control the fallout. If you're smart, she leaves thinking it was her idea to call things off and that it's a good thing she did. But at least hold her there (literally if necessary) until she's out of the emotionally-out-of-control stage of things, and at least back into the could-be-emotionally-out-of-control-at-any-moment stage that most women typically run at.

My advice is to still just bore her. Maybe even say you're not as comfortable as before, but really enjoy her company and want to be friends to see how you feel in the future and see how things go with that. Basically, the ol' friend-zone switcheroo. If she takes offense, then she has to admit she's a dirty, cheating slut. If she doesn't take offense, she'll get bored (if you don't cave), because nobody in the fucking world actually wants to be friends with the person they WERE fucking on the side no strings attached, especially after revealing some pretty heavy strings coming from her husband.
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Definite virgin
 
Sutekh

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Johnny49_sl said:
so here is the deal...........i have been seeing Capri for about a month....I give her $40 per day, 20 in the morning 20 in the evening, she knows how much i set aside for her and that as of this monday i will be down to my last hundred, she claims she loves me and wants to see me even if the money runs out......i told her that if i can't help her, then i don't want to see her, because it would be difficult see her suffering,
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Leave your wife and marry her.
 
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