The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

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iannis

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Duty doesn't have to be misery. That's all. I don't know how women deal with that issue, but I do know that it's different than the way men deal with it.

It actually is, dammit. I'm not being a mistogynist. So you'll get a lot of man answers.

Maybe it's something to talk about with a girlfriend. Not on the first date though. Christ, you could have the prettiest tits in the world and you'd still scare her off. Which means you'll have to stick it out for at least 5 or 6 dates.
 
Mist

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Iannis_sl said:
Duty doesn't have to be misery. That's all. I don't know how women deal with that issue, but I do know that it's different than the way men deal with it.

It actually is, dammit. I'm not being a mistogynist. So you'll get a lot of man answers.

Maybe it's something to talk about with a girlfriend. Not on the first date though. Christ, you could have the prettiest tits in the world and you'd still scare her off. Which means you'll have to stick it out for at least 5 or 6 dates.
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Many of my best friends in adolescence and early adulthood were boys/men mainly because I like the way men deal with problems better than the way most women do. All of my female friends were absolutely terrible at dealing with problems. I know, big shocker there.
 
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Mist_sl said:
Well, I know my hormones are fucked up. I'm 34 years old and look more or less like a vaguely feminine 12 year old boy. But I've known other sorta androgynous girls who like to fuck a lot, so I don't think that's it.

It's absolutely just depression. Women, unlike men, are incapable of enjoying sex in the absence of oxytocin.
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Just because someone else looks androgynous, doesn't mean they have a hormonal imbalance.

But, the fact that you KNOW that your hormones are fucked up... wouldn't you ... you know... want to fix that?
 
Mist

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Kegbro probably washes down his 'lithium supplements' with Muscle Milk in between reps with his kettlebells.
 
Mist

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Antarius_sl said:
Just because someone else looks androgynous, doesn't mean they have a hormonal imbalance.

But, the fact that you KNOW that your hormones are fucked up... wouldn't you ... you know... want to fix that?
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Yeah because having more estrogen would make me more rational...

Do you even redpill?
 
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Antarius

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Iannis_sl said:
Duty doesn't have to be misery. That's all. I don't know how women deal with that issue, but I do know that it's different than the way men deal with it.

It actually is, dammit. I'm not being a mistogynist. So you'll get a lot of man answers.

Maybe it's something to talk about with a girlfriend. Not on the first date though. Christ, you could have the prettiest tits in the world and you'd still scare her off. Which means you'll have to stick it out for at least 5 or 6 dates.
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Women tend to leave. We've talked about this numerous times on this forum. Cancer survivors have the highest rate of divorce of any population at all, but only if it's not terminal (terminal cancer patients have the lowest rate of divorce of anyone), and only after it has been in remission for 2 years (for male cancer patients, men are more likely to leave female cancer patients right away, but again, will 100% not leave if it's terminal). I could find the study again, but I don't think I need to. You can easily google it yourself if you don't believe me.

They do that, or they become depressed..
 
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Mist_sl said:
Yeah because having more estrogen would make me more rational...

Do you even redpill?
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Women don't need to be rational... to be happy.

In fact, a woman that is completely logical and rational, I'd be concerned about. Seriously.
 
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kegkilla

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Mist_sl said:
Kegbro probably washes down his 'lithium supplements' with Muscle Milk in between reps with his kettlebells.
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Kettle bells are for faggots... I dated a girl who took lithium and she was a miserable cunt when she wasn't taking it and the coolest chick I knew when she was. Give it a shot.
 
Gavinmad

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kegkilla_sl said:
Kettle bells are for faggots... I dated a girl who took lithium and she was a miserable cunt when she wasn't taking it and the coolest chick I knew when she was. Give it a shot.
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Unless you dated her for several months, I doubt you could tell the difference. Lithium isn't a magic happy pill.
 
Siddar

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Mist_sl said:
There's nothing "upper middle class" about me aside from being smart, white and having reasonable values. I grew up in the very definition of a white ghetto, I was malnourished and sickly (growing up poor during the Reagan years was brutal) until I was 8 years old when I moved up to only being rural poor instead of urban dirt poor. I was lucky in that I got a very good paying job at only 15 years old because I just happened to know more about Windows networking than anyone working at the school district, but my parents never put away a single dime away for me for college, or helped me buy a car, or anything like that that you would expect from a middle class family.

I mean, I'm fucking stupid, I get that. I could have gone to any college in the world for free or nearly free, but my parents said that I'd never have a place to come back to if I left to go to a real school. I didn't realize how dumb that decision was at the time, but I am certainly suffering for it now. I could have just packed my bags and moved out and got a real career the day I graduated high school, I had almost 3 years of solid IT experience.

I'm not blaming my mistakes on other people, just dispelling the myth that I had all these 'upper middle class' resources to work with. I have self-worth issues and I'm extremely risk averse. And yes, the fact that I was so sickly as a child has a lot to do with why I have guilt issues leaving my mother now that she's the one that's sick.
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Learn to hate what your parents did to you and then GTFO of your mothers house. That doesn't mean hate your mother it means gives yourself the right to be pissed off at the bad choices they made that harmed you.

Here is the secret you haven't clued in on yet. You love your mother more then she loves you.

You're being the perfect daughter planning on taking care of your mother tell the day she dies. While your mother is destroying her daughters life. Those are just the cold hard facts.

I advise you go tell your mother what you posted in your quote above and see what she says. Odds are her answer will show if the relationship is balanced are if its a mostly one way street with you giving far more to your mother then she returns.

Then leave your mother because you will never be happy until you do because you flat out told us you being there still was a mistake you made at age eighteen. as long as you stay you're trapped in that bad choice and it's killing you inside.
 
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