Azrayne
Irenicus did nothing wrong
I think the problem, other than working out just being plain boring for most people, is that they try to make massive lifestyle changes all at once, diet for a day or two, hit the gym once or twice and then hate it and they're bored and tired and they give up. IMO it's absurd to go from lazy and overweight to hardcore dieting and gym 3x a week, like sure it'll work for some people, but the majority, no way.Most people looking to lose weight don't actually lift weights though, even though body recomposition will be way more successful than just dieting with tons of cardio.
Having been heavily into lifting now for a few years, I've determined that 99% of the population doesn't have the willingness to dedicate themselves to the gym like I do. There are always excuses why they have to skip a workout. That leads to skipping multiple workouts and then finally just not going anymore.
The people I work with don't get to see me force feeding myself during a bulk or almost passing out from a heavy squat or deadlift day. It's not just a day to day thing, it's literally dedicating myself hour to hour with diet choices. It's a complete lifestyle change. I can absolutely understand why someone wouldn't want to subject themselves to that, but there's a reason most people look like shit and I don't.
That said, I feel like if people put in even a quarter of the effort I do, they could be drastically healthier.
This rambling is brought to you by my coworkers who asked me to help them out at the gym, went once or twice, and then flaked out week after week (there have been several now, and I basically won't take people anymore). If you can't free up 2-3 hours a week, you're not worth my time. The part that really bothers me is that if they just would've stuck with it for 3-4 months, they'd probably be at their goal by now. But that's just way too much work.
For myself, I've started with basic diet changes, drinking mostly water instead of soft drinks and the like, cutting off fast food and junk food, reducing the amount of cheese I put on sandwiches, less frozen food and shit like that, along with 20 or 30 minutes on a treadmill every afternoon (at home where I can watch TV while I do it) and really basic exercises during the day (20 pushups while stuck a loading screen kinda thing), and just that as it is has me losing 1kg/week or so. I can guarantee you if I'd tried to do a 180 with my diet and hit the gym every other night, I'd have given up after 2 days. Seen the same thing in so many of my friends, they stock up on protein powder and buy a year long gym membership, then 2 weeks later they're back to sitting around drinking beer, smoking weed and eating pizza every night. We're creatures of habit and we resist sudden or forceful change on a subconscious level.
Honestly, the people I feel really bad for are the ones who have terrible parents, were fed KFC and McDonalds every night from childhood and were obese by the time they hit late teenage years. It'd be a fucking nightmare, changing after that kind of lifestyle, for that long, in that kind of environment, and even if they manage it, they've already done massive damage to their body. Should be qualified as child abuse imo.