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Palum

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I thought the 'etsy shop' was self explanatory that she doesn't, else I presume it would be coming out of her paycheck... lol
 

chaos

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Yeah, she had to quit working when my daughter was having really bad issues, and I don't want to take my youngest out of school.
 

Palum

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What the fuck is this?

Specialized Experience: Experience advocating the use of technology via communicating/mess aging office priorities through tools such as internet, intranet, SharePoint, OneDrive, etc.
100K/yr for 'advocating' technology?
 

Big Phoenix

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if you guys could use an instant messenger to communicate in real time that would be great.
 

Noodleface

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Yeah, she had to quit working when my daughter was having really bad issues, and I don't want to take my youngest out of school.
OK. Bro why are you paying for childcare? Here that's like 1700 a month, that's essentially a second mortgage payment. If your wife isn't work she needs to take care of the kid, especially if youre struggling. Not to criticize too much but what is she doing to contribute?
 

Palum

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OK. Bro why are you paying for childcare? Here that's like 1700 a month, that's essentially a second mortgage payment. If your wife isn't work she needs to take care of the kid, especially if youre struggling. Not to criticize too much but what is she doing to contribute?
She's selling embroidered napkins on Etsy for $10/unit loss! LET HER DREAM NOODLE!
 

Vinen

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I dunno man, you don't have kids. 1700 to 2400 a month isn't cheap for anyone I know.
I repeat has a career. Anyone making under 100K USD by 30 doesn't really have a career yet in the Boston area.
Other regions (I assume) are much cheaper.
 

chaos

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OK. Bro why are you paying for childcare? Here that's like 1700 a month, that's essentially a second mortgage payment. If your wife isn't work she needs to take care of the kid, especially if youre struggling. Not to criticize too much but what is she doing to contribute?
She is contributing. I have one daughter now seeing a therapist twice a week, one in speech therapy twice a week, managing to medicate my 5 year old every day so she can function which is not easy. I don't think there is a way to manage all of these things and have a job.

We're fine really, struggling is a bad word to use, I should have found something else to say.
 

chaos

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I repeat has a career. Anyone making under 100K USD by 30 doesn't really have a career yet in the Boston area.
Other regions (I assume) are much cheaper.
Not every career pays 100k+. She's is early childhood education so unless she takes up robbing banks she'll never make that.
 

Cad

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The psychological problems with the kiddo really throws everything for a loop. Its good that your wife can devote time to her and you guys will do ok. Some kids need the extra time.
 

Noodleface

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Ah forgot about that stuff.

Vinen teachers in the area don't make 100k and I'd call that a career. Most tech companies don't pay that right out of the gate either. You got lucky with where you're working.
 

chaos

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Yeah we'll be ok. I've passed up a spot as a lead on an assessment team, which would have been awesome, mainly do to this perceived instability. Don't want to rock the boat right now.

And the etsy thing, I know you guys are super jelly, but she actually makes some decent stuff. Homemade stuff. It's just a hobby, all I want is for it to be self sustaining. I don't begrudge her that, as a stay at home mom she needs something for her and she likes it.
 

Xequecal

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Ah forgot about that stuff.

Vinen teachers in the area don't make 100k and I'd call that a career. Most tech companies don't pay that right out of the gate either. You got lucky with where you're working.
He probably lives in an expensive city area. If you're trying to support a family of 4 living in Manhattan, 500k is probably close to poverty.
 

Uber Uberest

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Vinen said Boston area, he's not from Boston. He's also wrong. Childcare is expensive as fuck in the city.