It's not the ONLY trait that's passed on, but it is by far the dominant one that is passed on. 80 years of behavioral psychology has shown that modeling behaviors and other learned behaviors get more and more dominant the more evolved the animal gets.
Let me put it this way. Science has shown that human beings have lost almost all of their instincts. Once we developed language, our instincts started going extinct pretty rapidly, because the we developed a better system for passing on behaviors than instinct, and our behaviors got so complex that they couldn't be passed on via instinct. Besides breathing, shitting and fucking, very few of our instincts are left. And by FAR the strongest instinct we have left is our strong innate desire to acquire new learned behaviors as rapidly as possible during childhood.
You're trying to make the case that extremely complex behaviors are being passed on by instinct, and that just doesn't make ANY fucking sense from a scientific standpoint.