I played EQ from Kunark through Omens of War. But I hold video games to a different standard today than I did in 2002.
I'm half serious when I say to nerf Gjallarhorn into the ground. Having a weapon that is extremely overpowered is bad for the game. When designing an encounter you have to look at that OP weapon and decide 1. Make the encounter not require Gjallarhorn and groups with 6 will trivialize it or 2. Make the encounter require Gjallarhorn and tell a portion of the population to piss off. Both options are losing options.
I do all of my groups through destinylfg.net. Normal mode CE requirements aren't that bad and I usually get an invite within a couple of minutes of posting or responding to people's LFM messages. But this week I decided to try and get a Hard Mode run figuring that I might not have Gjallarhorn but I've got a maxxed Red Death for heals, maxxed Black Hammer and Ice Breaker for Snipers and maxxed Hunger of Crota as the "poor man's" Gjallarhorn for Crota. Never even got an invite because everyone required Gjallarhorn. I eventually asked myself why put up with this shit?, turned the game off and put in Bloodborne instead. Up until this week I was doing exactly what you said: VOG Hard X3, Nighftall X3, CE Normal X3. Right now the only exotics I'm missing are Hawkmoon, 4th Horseman, and Gjallarhorn. That's Bungie's biggest achilles heel: Having people ask why bother and go off to play something else instead and they've been really lucky there hasn't been much competition until now.
Again, I don't blame the population. They are mostly idiots for putting stupid requirements like that which aren't necessary but they want quick and smooth runs. So if someone has a Gjallarhorn and someone does not, the person with will get picked 100% of the time over the guy without. I don't know you, I won't raid with you ever again after this run so I want to maximize my chances of getting through it fast. And that's why Gjallarhorn should be nerfed.