Update on my wife and I cooping the game:
Broomed out all of the Academy lake area, aside from the upside down tower since we need to advance the Darkmoon quest first. Spent most of the day plowing most of Caern area and have it mostly done, but will have to advance the Darkmoon quest first before tackling Radann. I ended up respeccing into a Night and Flame Sword setup, because I wanted a fire based weapon that didn't suck. Wife meanwhile has finally started occasionally swinging that blue int based sword to conserve mana, instead of burning every single trash mob down. She also found a snipe spot to cheese the dragon on the bridge, which was helpful as I was missing my ARC points I gave up for Night and Flame.
The Ganking leveled off a little in Caern, except for that sorcerer city with all the fucking ghosts. Hilariously, I have enough faith to do the AE knockback and that ruined the day of a couple of them. But the pattern of twinked out low level guys with endgame weapons (sometimes two of the same) continues. One guy literally stood there as an NPC summon did essentially no damage while wailing away on him, as well. Not sure what that is about, but there is some serious cheese in the PvP. It should just be scrapped entirely or weapon trades disabled at the minimum. The number of times I have seen these fuckers with that blood katana (sometimes two) makes me roll my eyes. And the madness lazer eyes guys can go fuck off too. This game could have been one of the greatest coop game experiences ever, if they had simply reined in the gankers or dropped PvP entirely. The guys who want to self flagellate for epeen points could still solo Melenia with a rusty spoon. The only people who would miss out are the ganking assholes, because the fair playing PvP player simply does not exist.