First off, I will try EQN. I have quit MMO's in the past few years. UO and EQ were my first MMO's I tried quite a few of them, and tried to really like them, I played WoW for years until I just realized that everything I wanted in an MMO was not there. I hope EQN will give me a few months enjoyment, but I have my doubts. We shall see.
I would rather have a subscription than FTP. I find Free To Play annoying. I get the feeling (probably irrationally) that somewhere down the line I'll have to pay $500 to complete a epic weapon quest. I like that paying a monthly fee tends to reduce the number of damn fools you play with.
I am okay with multi-classing. But for the love of god, keep the trinity. It gives me a feel of role for my character. Having multiple classes is okay, as well as mixing and matching skills are okay, but TANK HEALS DPS is a good social setup. Everyone LOL FACEROLL MASH DPS BUTTONS doesn't cut it for me. I want some semblance of tactics, and kiting everything because you didn't spend $20 on potions isn't the tactics I am looking for. I agree that four skills do not make a class. Eight spell gem options and 8 abilities per class (16 total) would make more sense. Let casts pick and choose what spells they use! Let's not make 4th edition D&D. EQ and WoW (vanilla) had a good balance in skills. EQ 2 was an abomination of skills.
I am okay with the style of the characters. EQ tried to "improve" the character models, and we got down syndrome humans and half elves, with Arnold Schwarzenagger steriod abusing ogres, and we're not going to be happy with the original EQ1 models 15 years later.
Loot does not need to be balanced. Ghoulbane, Manastone, Glowing Black Stone, Golden Efreeti Boots, JBOOTS, Rubicite Breastplate, Flowing Black Silk Sash, ect. And kept their usefulness for varying lengths of time. Those were ITEMS. Anyone care to name the hot items of WoW, or any other game made in the last 10 years that are still farmed because they are cool and useful to some degree? BoE/BoP: Hate it. Twinking is an art and fun besides.
Quests: Getting Soulfire or The Firey Avenger or Ice Comet spell by quests, no giant yellow "!" needed. Yes, I know everyone just looks up the quests on a wiki or allakhazam's. But you didn't have to if you didn't want to.
TRAIN TO ZONE! Hated them. Loved them. If you played EQ classic, you know what I mean. This should be in game in some form.