Girls who broke your heart thread
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What they are not telling you is how many times the mystery method just pisses people off. If you did not grow up a social person, someone who is used to joking with people, or kidding with buddies or family alot, it won"t work.
I think the most important thing you can learn from these websites and books, is that dating is like everything else. It takes practice. Nothing i ever read on that site is new. Any half intelligent guy picks up on these things through repetition.
What mystery helps with is picking up bitches.His methods surely help you to pick up women you would love to fuck but would never date....if your smart.
Read his methods from 16-22, reap the benifits.
When you hit 23 start dating REAL women.
Ps. seems there is Alot of people on this board from Florida/orlando.
I think the most important thing you can learn from these websites and books, is that dating is like everything else. It takes practice. Nothing i ever read on that site is new. Any half intelligent guy picks up on these things through repetition.
What mystery helps with is picking up bitches.His methods surely help you to pick up women you would love to fuck but would never date....if your smart.
Read his methods from 16-22, reap the benifits.
When you hit 23 start dating REAL women.
Ps. seems there is Alot of people on this board from Florida/orlando.
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A lot of his methods rest in good psychology. A lot of his information can help in many other situations, for example, understanding what"s happening better in conversations. Or it can help someone with huge approach anxiety get past the initial fear.hootie2 said:
I posted this already in this thread, but the girl this thread is about I approached using his ideas. I had seen her at the hospital and I thought she was the most beautiful girl I"ve ever seen in my entire life. So instead of going to try to talk to her, ask her out immediately, and tell her how beautiful she is, I went up and asked her to come help me with something (chaperone a pap smear), and then used some canned material on her. Then in the hospital instead of kissing her ass like every other guy would, I would drop by and joke that I was giving her my patient list and for her to get all my patient"s labs then call me down when she"s done. Guarantee you no guy ever treated her like that before! And that was a 25 year old beautiful professional girl, not a dizty 19 year old sorority whore.
I believe his methods can help you meet any woman you want, not just shitty ones that are date-worthy.
You"re totally right though, dating takes practice. I think a lot of problems a lot of guys have is not learning from their mistakes. They make the same ones over and over without realizing it.
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Hook me up with this wonderfull insightfull information, please. Show me a place where i can dl and read this Mistery Method, because i am in dire need of help.
My problem is twofold. First of all i am unable to pick girls up. No, i am not a virgin, but all my relationships, all 6 of them, were with girls that liked me and approached me first. I realize when i girl wants to be with me, but only when she is pretty much straightforvard about it, like a eye contact and a certain openness for conversation, i cant pick up on the subtle and often contradictory signals.
Second, i am unable to keep a relationship going for more than 6 months. Each and every girl i had dumped me, not the other way around, afther 3 to 6 months . So my schedule is sort of like 6-9 months solo and depressed, 3-6 months in a relationship and happy. And let me tell you, it sux to be this way. Help.
My problem is twofold. First of all i am unable to pick girls up. No, i am not a virgin, but all my relationships, all 6 of them, were with girls that liked me and approached me first. I realize when i girl wants to be with me, but only when she is pretty much straightforvard about it, like a eye contact and a certain openness for conversation, i cant pick up on the subtle and often contradictory signals.
Second, i am unable to keep a relationship going for more than 6 months. Each and every girl i had dumped me, not the other way around, afther 3 to 6 months . So my schedule is sort of like 6-9 months solo and depressed, 3-6 months in a relationship and happy. And let me tell you, it sux to be this way. Help.
I just watched the series The Pickup Artist. Well worth a watch and a brief insight into the method.
You can download the mystery method on pirate bay, another great book as equal if not slightly better then TTM is "Magic Bullets". Great read, Hey Aych, have you ever done pea cocking before? I"ve used it a couple of times with minimal success, normally wear bigger diamond earrings or a bright yellow wristband.
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23 still to young to be in a relationship, can still be out doing whatyouwant to be doing, all while keeping a lineup on the side just for booty calls.
thats unless you just plain suck at talking to chicks, then by all means, date heh.
The Game - By Neil Strauss
Read this before you touch any of the Mystery stuff or any other pickup artist literature.
Read this before you touch any of the Mystery stuff or any other pickup artist literature.
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I think this was one of the most entertaining books! I read it in just two days, it"s addicting! Great stories about them in other countries, Mystery telling Russians he"s going to explode their heads magically, etc. Great book!ValkyrieIsAboutToDie said:
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No, I have not gotten into peacocking yet. I know the shit works, but I"m just too self-conscious to try it. I used to go out in Manhattan with my buddy, who was about 5"11", super muscular (ripped), and really good looking. He"d always wear skin-tight peacocking t-shirts. And literally girls would walk up to him and start talking to him about his shirt.Jimmy Carter wuwu said:
The most I ever peacocked was one night at the casino. I had this bowler had I bought from a porn shop. It was like paper mache but had porn magazine photos on it, really weird, only cost $2. I wore that and I saw a nice looking girl at the bar waiting to order drinks, so I went and cut in front of her in line, then looked back and said over my shoulder "oh did I cut?" and then opened her, then ran best friends test on her and her friends (are you two best friends? i can tell because how you communicate with your eyes! we guys can"t do that!), they were so excited, then i told her I had to go and gave her my phone to put the number in. (I think I already posted this story a few pages back). I don"t think the hat did anything though.
Sometimes I"ll wear my sunglasses on my head as a lock-in prop, but that"s about it.
What kind of response did you get with the peacocking?
I got more success with the earrings, most of the women came up and said, "Are those real" and replied, "My bank account seems to think so, the more important question is, are those breast real. She would reply and half way while explaining they weren"t, I interrupted her and said , "I guess it doesn"t really matter, I"m more of a hands on type guy, so if I can touch them there real enough"
It worked, she took my hands and placed them on her jugs and said "welcome back to reality"
It worked, she took my hands and placed them on her jugs and said "welcome back to reality"
Yeah I hadnt heard of the TMM but hearing people talk about it with the terms provided is about the dumbest thing ever.
Talk to chics and pretend you dont care if they are into you.
Peacocking, negs, qualifying? Seriously what the fuck.
Talk to chics and pretend you dont care if they are into you.
Peacocking, negs, qualifying? Seriously what the fuck.
All of them have their purpose, like a previous poster said, a alot of mystery method is never going to work, alot of it has great foundations on how it works.
Peacocking = Standing out from the crowd. If you were to go to the club, how many guys do you think are wearing a button up and or polo? Pretty much everyone, so Peacocking is used as an accessorie to your style that night that stands out of the 300 other button up shirts etc, glasses, earrings, hat. Also the easiest way for those who have troubles approaching women, it allows the female to start the conversation.
Negs = Just means you playfully drop them off their pedestal there on. Then they try to establish value to get them back onto their pedestal...qualifying themselves.
It works pretty good, don"t knock it until you try it.
Peacocking = Standing out from the crowd. If you were to go to the club, how many guys do you think are wearing a button up and or polo? Pretty much everyone, so Peacocking is used as an accessorie to your style that night that stands out of the 300 other button up shirts etc, glasses, earrings, hat. Also the easiest way for those who have troubles approaching women, it allows the female to start the conversation.
Negs = Just means you playfully drop them off their pedestal there on. Then they try to establish value to get them back onto their pedestal...qualifying themselves.
It works pretty good, don"t knock it until you try it.
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The terminology is the best part of TMM It"s brilliant and it allows him to put it into this great marketable package. Best thing is TMM works.Simas said:
I listened to one podcast of some of the great PUAs talking, and they mentioned guys like you that think the whole thing is stupid and doesn"t work, but you (they, whatever, this is not an attack on you) never even bothered to learn it. A lot of great pickup game is counter-intuitive (tell a girl you"re not interested, tell her she"s not that pretty, etc, and she likes you - what the fuck?), and it seems on the surface it won"t work - but it does. If you don"t buy into it, that"s fine, just hope that one of us doesn"t hit on your girl while you"re out one night!
Lykis 101?[LVC]DeGrassi said:
What if you meet a girl who is great to hang out with, but lets you do whatever you want also (other than bang other chicks)? I wouldnt want her bangin other guys while Im with her, so I wouldnt mind being with just her.