It"s goddamned near fucking impossible.
There are basically 2 women in my life my age...my wife, and a chick I see at work. The chick at work is racist, and that pisses me off. Her hatred for mexicans would be funny if she was a bit older, but it"s just kinda irritating in this day and age. She also repeats herself constantly. I hear the same stories every day. It"s nonsense. That being said, we share a lot of similar interests, we have a definite connection, and have fun when I"m not busy being bored by hearing about the same shit I heard about yesterday. And the day before. And last week.
My wife is the only woman I can actually tolerate conversing with, because she"s actually intelligent. She doesn"t parrot shit she hears on TV or from her friends, she actually has a fucking opinion on things, and has the brainpower to determine an opinion if she doesn"t have one. However, her sense of humor is non existant. I can"t get her to laugh at shit that I find funny 90% of the time, and when she tells me a "Funny story," it"s usually some 10 minute long ordeal where I"m sitting there wondering if I missed the punchline or not.
I enjoy spending time with them both, but mostly just because I like checking out their asses and looking down their shirts. I go talk to my male friends if I want conversation.