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Sorry to Etoille and double post but here"s a simple piece of advice mate. Stop hanging about these fucking psycho"s and meet some reasonable people. The End.lost said:Nice, so is an ex girlfriend posting this on facebook
enough evidence for cops? lol, i mean who posts that on facebook? and no i didnt for those wondering
LolwutLusiphur said:Arkk pretty much roid rages in every thread though. It"s part of his charm
Love reading your posts. Everything you have stated in this thread I agree with 100%.Alcestis said:If you really believe that it took her a mere month to get over you and your extended relationship, instead of the likelihood that she"d known about this guy and pondered on how she"d rather be with him long before the break-up... well, okay. *shrug*
I"m all for mental/written repetition of something you may not truly believe to get over someone, which is what this eerily sounds like, despite you saying so. I"m with Tenks. You say you could detach yourself enough after a second crash and burn to say "fuck it""? As far as I can tell, you haven"t even detached yourself from thefirstone. You even fell on the curb (and it hurt apparantly), yet you took the time to note down every reaction of hers: "kissing the top of my head, rubbing her fingers through my hair asking if I was okay". I"d never accept such intimate physical contact from someone who is supposed to be in a long-term relationship, but that"s me and my bias. There was no reason for her and her kid to stay over (or merely even GO) to your house for after what"s supposed to be a casual lunch. Before you explain it away - I"m certainly not a heartless bitch to send out a kid out there wearing shit all over his pants: washing the clothes was necessary. But they should"ve been out immediately after completion, not just lingered around for "a few hours". Is your washer and dryer from the 70s? And there"s no reason you shouldn"t have said anything but "It"s none of your business, sorry" after she stuck her nose into something that hasnothing whatsoeverto do with her, instead of you offering a coy, "oh she"s a friend tee hee".
You"rebarelysteering clear of the "boyfriend" role from what I"m reading, and you"re rushing headlong into the "father of a child that isn"t mine where the mother isn"t really interested in me" one instead. You were passed over for an out-of-state guy who would"ve cheated on her given an opportunity (and is probably doing so: let"s not gloss over probabilities here) - whom she stupidlyforgave. She"d rather be with a guy like that and be "lonely" than be with you. How on earth can you rationalize this, Tarrant? How can you agree to her thinly veiled "please somebody, anybody, spend time with me" lunch date? And she just called you, scant hours after showering more attention on her, for another go? I have a sneaking suspicion that if you didn"t have plans, you would"ve said "yes". That makes what you"re doing unhealthy... for you both.
sad reality but truth. everyone watches out for their own ass, she"s simply makin it easier to get out of relationship by getting onto a new one, using u while she looks for that next relationshipIf you really believe that it took her a mere month to get over you and your extended relationship, instead of the likelihood that she"d known about this guy and pondered on how she"d rather be with him long before the break-up... well, okay. *shrug*
No way I"ll maintain that streak indefinitely, so I"ll quit while I"m ahead:Tyen said:Everything you have stated in this thread I agree with 100%.
BAM OUT PLAYED.Alcestis said:No way I"ll maintain that streak indefinitely, so I"ll quit while I"m ahead:
Tyenisgay.
Honestly the first impression I got from that e-mail was that it was written exactly how he writes, and it was pretty much the most favorable first communication you could have with a female that you didn"t even know at all. I"d like to give him the benefit of the doubt though because that"d be really really bad.Sutekh said:You"re going to fuck it up. I can feel it, it will make for great entertainment in the next couple of posts.
Atleast if you keep acting like "Oh wow I"m surprised she said yes!1" you will(Not saying to be cocky, just have some confidence bro).
You don"t say....arkk123 said:Honestly the first impression I got from that e-mail was that it waswritten exactly how he writes, and it was pretty much the most favorable first communication you could have with a female that you didn"t even know at all. I"d like to give him the benefit of the doubt though because that"d be really really bad.
Absolutely. Without question. This is what I do with relationships.Sutekh said:You"re going to fuck it up.
I"m not concerned about that. I"m not surprised in terms of "oh wow this awesome girl might actually like little old me!", more in terms of she is already seeing someone, she wasn"t overly flirtatious and quite reserved, and it took awhile to hear back. I actually DO tend to have a problem of coming across as cocky.Atleast if you keep acting like "Oh wow I"m surprised she said yes!1" you will(Not saying to be cocky, just have some confidence bro).