This really has seemed to be lacking as of late so I"ll throw in my wonderful adventures...
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Wrote something about 10 months ago about finding out some shit on my girlfriend of 6 months or so and was pretty distraught about the findings. Relationship and trust picked back up and everything was fine up until 2.5 months ago when I encountered some strange behaviors.
Turns out this girl has little to no remorse, almost as if she"s a sociopath of relationships. I found out she cheated on me with 3 separate people in that 2.5 months. I knew one was a given because of a hunch I had and broke up with her because of that. A few days later it was confirmed by a mutual friend that she was cheating on me with the hunch and I called her up to confront her about it and the first thing that came out of her mouth was, "How did you find out", no sorry or anything. She was more pissed off that I found out than what she actually did to me. Throughout the day, friends of hers that felt horrible about what this girl was doing to me confessed and I found out there was 2 others. The now ex started blowing up her friends phones trying to figure out what I now knew and bitched them all out for me finding out everything.
What made it worse is that a month ago I went down to her parents house to hang out with them for a few days with her. The dad took me up in their 2 seater Cessna and I flew around for an hour or so and we talked about everything. The mom took pictures and I got a facebook message from the dad saying he was sorry we parted ways after we broke up and that he had pictures. I gave him my address so they could send them. Once I found out she cheated on me I sent the dad another message saying that if he didn"t send the pictures already, don"t and that I found out some unsettling news about his daughter.
I didn"t expect this, but the dad called me up to see if I was alright and what was going on. I told him she cheated on me and this man was speechless. He always has something to say about everything and all he could say was "I don"t know what to say" and he repeated that dozens of times. Later in the day is when I actually found out about the two others. I called the dad up because I was concerned for his daughter because she changed so much in these past 2.5 months it was absurd. I told him who she cheated on me with and if he needed more information to call the roommate since the roommate is one of the friends who started telling me everything what happened. The dad calls the roommate and she pretty much confirmed that my ex was unfaithful to me with multiple people over this short amount of time.
A day after this I find out from other friends that this girl had a reputation of having strings of relationships that only last a week or so then break off for no apparent reason and everyone neglected to tell me because once they found out what kind of guy I was they thought she might actually have a keeper. Apparently I was holding her back from being a promiscuous whore the entire relationship and I first caught her behavior last November.
I just feel god awful about her parents knowing that their little angel (single child) sleeps around with some of the most moronic people ever. The parents are and I swear to this, the most genuine parents I have ever met and loved having me around since I broke the norm from her usual idiotic picks. They even told the roommate that they thought I was the one where we"d end up getting hitched and spending the rest of our lives together, lol. The girl I was dating is now pissed off that the dad talked to the roommate even though he called her and that her parents are now going to judge her, which I find hilarious.
Since I broke up with her (last week), I"ve blocked her from my life completely and haven"t felt better because I warned her if she went back to acting strange I"d just up and leave her and did. Turns out I left her before she was ready to leave me since she had a replacement already on the side (the hunch I had). Tbh, I never had any problems breaking up with her, it was finding out that she cheated on me hit me the hardest. What was really fucked up, she was trying to get me to say I love you back to her when I broke up with her just to see if she had control of the relationship. She didn"t.
Learned a lot of shit in this relationship that I do not intent on repeating. There"s a lot more shit I could add such as why this girl makes for a horrible slut, but I wont bore anyone with that and it"s late.
