This is actually pretty good advice if your having trouble finding a women... Marry the average women but fuck the shit out of the hot ones.kegkilla said:
Girls who broke your heart thread
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I didn"t threaten. She"s never given me a reason to suspect cheating. She is flirty but so am I....
Its nothing big or dramatic, just a lack of respect on a few different occasions.
Its nothing big or dramatic, just a lack of respect on a few different occasions.
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That"s all it takes sometimes. I broke up with a girl over wearing a seatbelt.Mazim said:
Dated her sophomore year of college. Same college town, homes were 2.5hrs apart so during breaks and the summer we only did weekend trips to see eachother.
She lived in the middle of fucking nowhere in rural NY. Town of I"m guessing 5,000. Her dad, her brother, and most of the males in her family were members of the Volunteer Fire Deparment. and every guy in town was Uncle this, or Uncle that. Just deep rural, NOT white trash though. They all had nice cars and big pickups, and snowmobiles, etc. They were not poor.
This was hard for me to deal with. She herself wasn"t very country like until I met them I had no hint of it other then her liking Country music. (This was another almost deal breaker) But when I went to visit her I was the rich CT college boy. It was awkward as fuck.
Now whenever we drove any where she had me drive. I always drove my car (obviously) and I always drove hers to, she didn"t like driving which was fine. However she was panicky at times, she didn"t backseat drive, but she did need to point out anything that was a possible risk. She explained it as nervousness when she was in cars because her dad was a Volunteer Fire Deparment chief and she had seen a lot of motor vehicle accidents. It was irritating to deal with, but she had good reason to be like that so it was nothing against her.
The thing that killed it for me was one night we were going out to dinner all in her parents car. Her dad and mother in the front seats. Myself, her and her grandmother were in the back seat. Just as we get going I put on my seat belt, I ask her to shift for a second so I can buckle it and she doesn"t at first and then asks me, "Why? We"re in the back seat, its not illegal." She didn"t understand my argument that I did it because of safety and concern for my life. So we had a quick back and forth where she basically insinuated I was less manly because I wore a seat belt. She was truely of the rural white patriot mind set of "It"s my god given right to do it, unless its illegal" In that moment there was an absolute un-ignorable difference in our cultures and upbringings.
And that was it ended the relationship that very weekend. There are many attributes I like in girls, very few are a deal breaker/must have. Basic common sense is one. Now I"m not talking like logical in relationships, not using emotions, etc. no girl has those traits. They"re all "girl crazy" I"m talking about basic common sense.
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Exactly I get in a car I don"t even think about it. I feel very uncomfortable in a car without my seat belt on.
Just cause I"m in a ranting mode at the moment about this girl. She was also a Communications major. Working on her Bachelors. Now that"s fine, I have no idea what you do with that degree, but its a fine "not really anything" degree. (Like english or history) But her college plan was to then get her Masters and her PHD in Communications. WTF IS THAT!? She"s in her Masters program now and I just don"t get it. Like what purpose do those degrees serve?
Her whole long term plan involved getting the PHD but there was no "and then?" part.
Just cause I"m in a ranting mode at the moment about this girl. She was also a Communications major. Working on her Bachelors. Now that"s fine, I have no idea what you do with that degree, but its a fine "not really anything" degree. (Like english or history) But her college plan was to then get her Masters and her PHD in Communications. WTF IS THAT!? She"s in her Masters program now and I just don"t get it. Like what purpose do those degrees serve?
Her whole long term plan involved getting the PHD but there was no "and then?" part.
When I read this one paragraph I was about to reply and call you an idiot. This paragraph makes it sound like you are about to say something like she yelled at you fornotwearing a seatbelt which would have been fine.brekk said:
This part made me realize oh... this guy isnotan idiot. That would have irritated me so very much because I always wear my seatbelt (out of habit).brekk said:
And wow the last part... that is about the time I tell her peace out.brekk said:
Good reason... something is definitely wrong with this girl.
+internets for you!
she questioned why you wore a seatbelt in the back seat? what a bitch monster. you"re way too good for that.
yeah, heaven forbid you make an effort to understand and, gasp, even sacrifice some of your self image for other people, let alone your significant other. you did the right thing, the thing society tells you you should. drop people off at the curb who don"t show you "proper respect" or don"t subscribe to your newsletter way of thinking. life is too short and self is too important for any type of sacrifice whatsoever. make you sure blog, twitter, and fb about your relationship experiences and your sense of the importance of self worth. not just post about it on here.
ps, golden anniversaries will never happen anymore.
yeah, heaven forbid you make an effort to understand and, gasp, even sacrifice some of your self image for other people, let alone your significant other. you did the right thing, the thing society tells you you should. drop people off at the curb who don"t show you "proper respect" or don"t subscribe to your newsletter way of thinking. life is too short and self is too important for any type of sacrifice whatsoever. make you sure blog, twitter, and fb about your relationship experiences and your sense of the importance of self worth. not just post about it on here.
ps, golden anniversaries will never happen anymore.
Wow you really are an idiot.Dumar said:
#1 can you really date someone that could care less about how she talks towards you or just plain thinks about you?
#2 "picking" on you for wearing a seatbelt is the most retarded thing I have ever heard of.
#3 it has nothing to do with sacrificing self imagine because it wasn"t any of his friends it was just her fucking family.
Bottom line. She sounds stuck up and acts like a disrespectful bitch.
Also... back to #1. That might not work towards you since you sound like you would date almost anything. Up your standards bro.
People think looks are important... Well sorry to burst your bubble but the girls personality and how they act > looks. I rather have a 10 personality and 6 looks than a 10 looks and 6 personality as a girlfriend.
Oh and back to your original quote so I can make fun of it even more...
Keying in onheaven forbid you make an effort to understand...even sacrifice some of your self image...for your significant other.Dumar said:
I must ask... why thefuckwould he sacrifice his self imagine for her. What is she gaining? All she is doing is being a complete bitch about him being safe and wearing a seatbelt. If she was a normal person but still disagreed on the seatbelt, all she had to do was either #1 let him put his seatbelt on but don"t put yours and up the chance of dying if you crash... or #2 let him put his seatbelt on and she put one on also because it saves your life.
You would think that since her family is in the fire department and she is always pointing out things that could go wrong, she would insist on wearing a seatbelt. Honestly, that is what really confuses me.