That"s just stupid, you make it sound like a measure of deference in Asian society precludes any meaningful relationships whatsoever. That"s simply absurd.Churchill said:Others of us prefer actual, meaningful relationships with people who know what they want and go out and get it.
Take divorce in America, people get divorced for some of the most ridiculous reasons, often without any effort at reconciliation. I know men that are so paranoid about marrying a woman, raising the kids and then getting divorced shortly after that they"d rather stay unmarried, and at most simply stay in a long term relationship so as to preclude marriage altogether. Sure there is an issue with staying in BAD marriages in Asia, but unless you plan on abusing your wife I don"t see how that would really matter in this discussion.
I don"t know if I"d agree, maybe they wont voice it publicly, but if you think that they don"t have knock down drag out fights in the home, then you"re nuts lol.Mmmkeshek said:Your Asian women though, are simply taught not to voice their opinion/discomfort/dislike/disdain/diswhateverelse.
I"m not sure where you got this impression from, but you make it sound like it"s all arranged marriages. And if you as a man can"t date a woman over a period of months and discover the truth for yourself (does she really like me or am I a meal ticket, etc) then maybe that"s an issue with you. Their marriages often work out just like our marriages - maybe a period of love and infatuation, which fades away over the years until both parties start wondering wtf happened. The only difference is, many Asians still have a culture that sees divorce as a Bad Thing, while we"ve gone the other direction.Mmmkeshek said:The more likely outcome though, is you"ll find an Asian chick who really isn"t that into you, and personally I can"t abide that. I want my mate to actually be interested in me, attracted to me, and like being with me.
Do you think this doesn"t happen all the time in America?REALLY?!?If you think most women don"t look at men and put a value on career/stability/income, then you"re simply naive lol.Mmmkeshek said:They settle for someone they probably aren"t actually all that attracted to or interested in, because they will provide for them and allow them to start a family or whatnot.