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Good catch. Can you imagine the quality of man that would be attracted to a PREGNANT Shelly? UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Grumpus said:
I didn"t want to put my husband down but by Louisiana laws I had to since his real father wasn"t around. Right now, Jeremy has no rights to my son, but he still has responsibility for our son that he will not do for his 2 other sons. I sleep just fine.Grumpus said:
My guess is that the hospital asked who her husband was, assuming he was the father. Clearly, they were ill equipped or prepared to deal with such a horrifying clusterfuck.Shelly1989 said:
That said, the birth certificate does not have a place for "husband"s name". It has a place for "father"s name". Whether on purpose or not, you lied on the form.
Incidentally, this is the form you need, and the $450 charge is a lie as well.
Louisiana Acknowledgement of Paternity Packet.
The costs outlined on page 1 are:
So at most, $27.50.
Incidentally, there is some interesting information on page 4, as well:
Note the bolded details. I have a feeling they will be coming up again soon.
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Maybe stop being such a dumb cunt to everyone and these guys will stop leaving you and trying to completely erase you from there lives.
Do you not see a pattern of behavior from the men in your life leaving you?
?The first time someone calls you a horse you punch him in the nose, the second time someone calls you a horse you call him a jerk, but the third time someone calls you a horse, well then perhaps it"s time to go shopping for a saddle."
Do you not see a pattern of behavior from the men in your life leaving you?
?The first time someone calls you a horse you punch him in the nose, the second time someone calls you a horse you call him a jerk, but the third time someone calls you a horse, well then perhaps it"s time to go shopping for a saddle."
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Wow.Shelly1989 said:
I"d love to know how you afford a lawyer. Most lawyers charge per hour what you make in a month.Shelly1989 said:
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Actually, no I will take pictures of the paper work to proof it. It does cost $450. By Louisiana laws, since the father wasn"t around and we both are married to separate people, I had to put my husband on the birth certificate.
If the mother of a newborn child was married at the time of conception and birth, or had not been divorced for more than three hundred (300) days, the child is presumed to be the child of her husband. The child?s surname must be recorded as the surname of the husband of the mother, or if both the husband and the mother agree, the child?s surname may be the maiden name of the mother or a combination of the surnames of the mother and the father in either order [R.S. 40:34B.(1)(a)(iii)]. The husband must be recorded on the birth certificate as the father of the child.
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If the husband of the mother is not the biological father of the child, and the mother, her husband, and the child?s biological father execute a three-party Acknowledgment of Paternity Affidavit, the child?s surname may be recorded as the surname of the biological father, or if the mother, her husband and the child?s biological father agree, the surname may be a combination of the surname of the mother and the biological father in either order [R.S. 40:34B.(1)(a)(vi)]. The name of the biological father will be recorded as the father of the child on the birth certificate. Use of the three-party affidavit process is limited to those cases wherein the husband and mother lived separate and apart continuously for a minimum of one hundred eighty days prior to the time of conception of the child and did not reconcile after the beginning of the one hundred and eighty-day period.
If the mother of a newborn child was married at the time of conception and birth, or had not been divorced for more than three hundred (300) days, the child is presumed to be the child of her husband. The child?s surname must be recorded as the surname of the husband of the mother, or if both the husband and the mother agree, the child?s surname may be the maiden name of the mother or a combination of the surnames of the mother and the father in either order [R.S. 40:34B.(1)(a)(iii)]. The husband must be recorded on the birth certificate as the father of the child.
Woman"s Hospital | exceptional care, centered on you | Baton Rouge, Louisiana
If the husband of the mother is not the biological father of the child, and the mother, her husband, and the child?s biological father execute a three-party Acknowledgment of Paternity Affidavit, the child?s surname may be recorded as the surname of the biological father, or if the mother, her husband and the child?s biological father agree, the surname may be a combination of the surname of the mother and the biological father in either order [R.S. 40:34B.(1)(a)(vi)]. The name of the biological father will be recorded as the father of the child on the birth certificate. Use of the three-party affidavit process is limited to those cases wherein the husband and mother lived separate and apart continuously for a minimum of one hundred eighty days prior to the time of conception of the child and did not reconcile after the beginning of the one hundred and eighty-day period.
There"s another few aspects to this birth certificate business.
1. I visited Shelly in the hospital, at labor and delivery, and David was there. Since a mother can have only one visitor there after hours, a nurse asked which one of us is the father. She pretended to be too out of it to answer, and then she was chatting up a storm five minutes later. Since she and I were not together and she had David there, I did not visit again until after he was born.
2. THIRTY SIX HOURS after Kevin was born, she called me and told me. I rushed to the hospital, and asked the nurse to see my son (giving her the benefit of the doubt at the time). I was on the phone with her when AGAIN a nurse asked who the father is. She MUTER HER PHONE so I could not hear her answer, and then called me a "selfish asshole" for trying to see the baby instead of her when it was not visiting hours for the SICU where she was after cessarian.
3. I CALLED THE HOSPITAL and a family and divorce attorney. BOTH told me that IF ANOTHER MAN IS NOT PRESENT TO CLAIM RESPONSIBILITY then a married woman"s child has her husband on the birth certificate. If both claim the child, a DNA test is done by default. But ONLY if the mother DENIES the possibility that another man is the father, the husband goes on the birth certificate.
Conclusion: Shelly is lying through her teeth. SHE denied that I am the father, SHE claimed DAVID is, SHE put him on the birth certificate, and now that she realizes that he has no money to take, she is trying to backpeddal even though she DENIED that I am the ather at the hospital and publicly. Shit, she would not even let me see the child when he was born and did not even send me a picture for a month and a half.
So, she can go fuck herself. Mommy state or not, she had more than proven herself unfit, and her continual assertions that I do nothing for my children only prove it more, just like everything else she says. She is so out of touch with reality that I am genuinely afraid for the child.
1. I visited Shelly in the hospital, at labor and delivery, and David was there. Since a mother can have only one visitor there after hours, a nurse asked which one of us is the father. She pretended to be too out of it to answer, and then she was chatting up a storm five minutes later. Since she and I were not together and she had David there, I did not visit again until after he was born.
2. THIRTY SIX HOURS after Kevin was born, she called me and told me. I rushed to the hospital, and asked the nurse to see my son (giving her the benefit of the doubt at the time). I was on the phone with her when AGAIN a nurse asked who the father is. She MUTER HER PHONE so I could not hear her answer, and then called me a "selfish asshole" for trying to see the baby instead of her when it was not visiting hours for the SICU where she was after cessarian.
3. I CALLED THE HOSPITAL and a family and divorce attorney. BOTH told me that IF ANOTHER MAN IS NOT PRESENT TO CLAIM RESPONSIBILITY then a married woman"s child has her husband on the birth certificate. If both claim the child, a DNA test is done by default. But ONLY if the mother DENIES the possibility that another man is the father, the husband goes on the birth certificate.
Conclusion: Shelly is lying through her teeth. SHE denied that I am the father, SHE claimed DAVID is, SHE put him on the birth certificate, and now that she realizes that he has no money to take, she is trying to backpeddal even though she DENIED that I am the ather at the hospital and publicly. Shit, she would not even let me see the child when he was born and did not even send me a picture for a month and a half.
So, she can go fuck herself. Mommy state or not, she had more than proven herself unfit, and her continual assertions that I do nothing for my children only prove it more, just like everything else she says. She is so out of touch with reality that I am genuinely afraid for the child.
You fucking twit! You just busted yourself again! I have never seen anyone so stupid in my entire lifeShelly1989 said:
Holy fucking Christ, are you really that fucking dense?Shelly1989 said:
You are pasting something from the section called "Newborns Born of Marriage". Scroll down a few inches, you dumb fuck.
Short version? You lied at the hospital, or you are lying now.
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