Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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She doesn't even have to do that. Everyone here already has expedia open in another tab ready to buy a plane ticket at a moment's notice.. just no one has said it yet.
Fifey
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Expedia? That's dumb, I can cuckold lindzs husband for under 40 bucks thanks to the bolt bus.
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Have you ever done the humiliation thing? Where you tell him you have to step out because his dick is too small or whatever?
Does this mean you want to do it, or just that you're willing to do it to please him? And fially, are you going to do it, or are you going to lie to him? Oh and BTW maybe he'd get off from you posting nudes for us. It could be that he's just excited when he gets proof that you're desirable to other men.
This is why my wife and I have made a conscious effort to curtail our slide into kinkiness. My theory is that a kink progression is inevitable so when you start down a path, you really need to look down the road to where it will lead and decide whether you wanna go there. People will always be looking for a little more excitement and if you're not careful that sexy light bondage will wind up with someone sitting in a pool of motor oil with jumper cables on their nipples.
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It's exciting. We've had a lot of fun with the roleplay aspects. The hardest part for me, is how to go about it since picking up some random stranger wouldn't work for me - I'm too much of an introvert and haven't sought out anyone else in 12 years. So that aspect is a little scary. That has been the major turn off for me.
Yes - something came up recently, so I know.
I wouldn't be comfortable with someone we both knew, haven't really though about it more than that. He knows of this person, but doesn't know him.
He'd be happy with whatever. Multiple partners would be a good thing though.
Never considered it - would feel really weird to lie. We've talked in detail about past partners though and that is a turn on too.
Nope, not a troll. It's something we've played lightly with for years. I never brought it up here before because I'd never really considered it until now, now that I am, I want to know more. I'd have absolutely no clue who to ask about this sort of thing outside people here.
No, I'm not interested in the humiliation thing and neither is he.
As strange as it is to admit, yes, I want to do it and have taken steps towards it. Met a guy recently that I've been sexting with, talking dirty over skype, exchanging pics with, etc. Told the husband of course and the reaction was very very good (like he got half way to work, turned around and came back home the other day and it has been like that since).
So my deal - as I think I've posted here before - is that several years ago I finally said fuck it about tiptoeing around what I want with regards to sex. Opened up completely to my husband and he eventually was able to as well. We have a good sex life because of it, though my sex drive has always been higher and he's not super into the same stuff I am. Since I got over depression problems a couple years ago (when I stopped posting on these forums actually), I've just got my shit together. I don't lack confidence like I used to, I'm not super neurotic (I'm female so yes, I have my moments). I am totally happy with my marriage, love him more than anything, but given that it is something I know he really enjoys and with the opportunity arising... dunno, just seems like it could be fun.
And like I said above, I have absolutely no clue who I could get advice from, so here I am.
Where's your fuckin data from? Who would tell anyone this is why their marriage failed, to actually know?
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Noodleface
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You can Google cuckold divorce and find millions of stories of it causing divorce. You can Google other divorce reasons and get the same results. Id mostly be afraid that 1) he'd eventually get jealous of you with another man or 2) you'd develop stronger feelings for someone and want to leave your husband.
I thought you mentioned before you were with your husband since you were 18. People go through a lot of changes from 18 to 30.. I never recommend marrying so young.
I thought you mentioned before you were with your husband since you were 18. People go through a lot of changes from 18 to 30.. I never recommend marrying so young.
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I think that reason #2 is what most men would be afraid of. But if the only reason your wife loves you is because she isn't allowed to see anyone else I don't know what to tell you. People talk about love being strong but in reality most people think it's brittle and frail.
On the flip side if she finds someone she likes more than you, better now than in 30 years.
I can see this as a last measure, but between trying this and being bored as fuck for the rest of my life.... no brainer.
Most people probably won't report "having my wife fuck other people saved our marriage, either
Honestly, I'm pretty worried about what 20 or 30 years of sex with the same person will do to me. I don't pretend to know what will happen, but I definitely don't intend to settle in to day to day misery.
I can see this as a last measure, but between trying this and being bored as fuck for the rest of my life.... no brainer.
Most people probably won't report "having my wife fuck other people saved our marriage, either
Honestly, I'm pretty worried about what 20 or 30 years of sex with the same person will do to me. I don't pretend to know what will happen, but I definitely don't intend to settle in to day to day misery.
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Yeah personally myself if we were at that point the marriage is most likely over. We could say we love each other but if we are wanting to sleep with over people what is the point of being married.
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You guys are seeing it from a monogamous persons point of view which is "if I want to fuck someone else, why am I in this relationship? It's probably over" because you only see sex happening with the person you are with. If you desire it with someone else... then that relationship is over?
If you want to try to understand the people who do this, you need to understand that they can be perfectly happy in their marriage, perfectly satisfied with their sex life, but also turned on by the idea of having a threesome (2 guys or 2 girls) or foursome or doing exhibition or whatever. These things would be in addition to, not in substitution of, their ordinary sex life. So he's not a "cuck loser" (and honestly, this is the grown up forum ya'll should try to approach things from a non-shithead point of view, especially the fucking mods) he's just exploring another aspect of he and his wife's sex life, and if both of them are ok with it then more power to them.
If you want to try to understand the people who do this, you need to understand that they can be perfectly happy in their marriage, perfectly satisfied with their sex life, but also turned on by the idea of having a threesome (2 guys or 2 girls) or foursome or doing exhibition or whatever. These things would be in addition to, not in substitution of, their ordinary sex life. So he's not a "cuck loser" (and honestly, this is the grown up forum ya'll should try to approach things from a non-shithead point of view, especially the fucking mods) he's just exploring another aspect of he and his wife's sex life, and if both of them are ok with it then more power to them.