I don't speak like that because I'm not a child, don't believe that my own personal definitions of things trump actual definitions and am aware of how derogatory the terms are.
Your examples are terrible. Grow up.
You just spoke like that, you want me to grow up. I am grown up, I will grow no further, in fact I will shrink due to spine compression. I would bet you are past that age as well. I would bank on it (not really, you get it? there is no bank involved).
We use words all the time to have multiple meanings whether you agree with how derogatory they are or not.
Here you are just yesterday being insensitive to transgender people who have had surgery. Everyone that has had sex reassignment surgery looks mannish to you and you have lumped them into a group of "post-op".
Ok call me crazy, but her face looks a little mannish in some of those pics. I'm thinking there's a post-op twist on this scoop.
Here is you generalizing women in a derogatory fashion.
Reminds me of one of the worst first dates I've ever been on. Started talking about music and I asked her to tell me one of her guilty pleasures. Bitch actually said Elton John.
Only worse experience I've had is sitting down to watch Princess Bride with some broad I'd gone out with a few times and she immediately started calling it boring and stupid. That was the end of that.
She wasn't really a bitch and broad is actually derogatory.
broad (n.) Look up broad at Dictionary.com
"woman," slang, 1911, perhaps suggestive of broad (adj.) hips, but it also might trace to American English abroadwife, word for a woman (often a slave) away from her husband. Earliest use of the slang word suggests immorality or coarse, low-class women. Because of this negative association, and the rise of women's athletics, the track and field broad jump was changed to the long jump c. 1967.