Chanur
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Gay is actually slang as well as it originally meant happy or excited. Please continue though.
Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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Guest, it's time once again for the massively important and exciting FoH Asshat Tournament!
Go here and give us your nominations!Who's been the biggest Asshat in the last year? Give us your worst ones!
Gavinmad
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Chanur
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Faggot is a bundle of sticks, yadda yadda.
Word police don't realize what they say and try to police other people and it never ends up well.
I expect nothing else from someone with commitment phobia that always needs to be in an open relationship. This stance of only some words are too derogatory to use flippantly but others are fine if I use them is a direct parallel to the rest of his life.
Classic that a man who is not married nor divorced that I know of complained about someone being childish in the grown up forum in a thread about a topic he has no direct involvement in except for avoiding at all cost.
Want to know why I don't peg? I already shit blood from there, I don't need to cause more problems. The wife doesn't want anal either, wouldn't matter the reason her body her choice. That broad bitch.
Chanur
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I bet it is to some women. Walk on over to Gamergate or Butthurt white guys thread to find out people get amaaaaazingly upset about the silliest things such as word policing on a forum.
Bee tee dubs Khane has used the word retarded on this forum almost 75 times and that is most definitely a derogatory term that is poorly used.
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Except different words have different levels of effect, calling someone a American Inventor is a 10 but calling someone a faggot is probably a 6, bitch probably a 3 or 4 on my arbitrary hurty words scale. I've never said don't say the word, go have a blast, my point is it makes you come off as a 14 year old Xbox bro. Same as the new trend of calling someone a cuck or X is aids.
Also, this thread needs single people to help those getting out of a divorce on how to cope with the new dating scene instead of leaving opiates on your porch for nudes.
Aldarion
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On the derail: its really annoying that in the 21st century we've somehow lost the distinction between finding something gross versus being afraid and bigoted toward those who practice it.
Back to Arinath's dilemma -- its odd to me that no one has commented on this. The dude confronts his wife about the lack of sex (good for you), and the conclusion is she hints there will be sex sometime in the unspecified near future. And he reacts as if this was a positive outcome.
If you're dying of thirst and finally get the opportunity to confront the hydraulic despot about your situation, and they say "ok sometime in the near future you are likely to find water"...while they're sitting there sipping a glass of water, but not offering you any .... youre gonna take this as a good sign? I'm confused at this line of thinking.
Wish ya the best but that reaction didnt sound like a positive sign to me, it sounded like a tactic to get you off her back for an indefinite amount of time.
Back to Arinath's dilemma -- its odd to me that no one has commented on this. The dude confronts his wife about the lack of sex (good for you), and the conclusion is she hints there will be sex sometime in the unspecified near future. And he reacts as if this was a positive outcome.
If you're dying of thirst and finally get the opportunity to confront the hydraulic despot about your situation, and they say "ok sometime in the near future you are likely to find water"...while they're sitting there sipping a glass of water, but not offering you any .... youre gonna take this as a good sign? I'm confused at this line of thinking.
Wish ya the best but that reaction didnt sound like a positive sign to me, it sounded like a tactic to get you off her back for an indefinite amount of time.
Khane
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That actually is something I do and am aware of and try not to. But I fail. The difference is I'm not gonna tell myself "well fuck everyone else, it's the same as calling someone an asshole".
But not even 75 times in 8240 posts huh? I think I'm doing pretty good.
Itlan
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I think we all have lessened our use of derogatory terms I bet. We adapt.
Someone calling pegging gay though is not a hill to die on. It's a very close link in people's psyche.
Here we have men in this thread having issues even getting sex from their WIVES. Like sex at all. Yet here you are and others also that are always pushing things that some people are still not comfortable with. If a person doesn't agree with that all of a sudden now they are a homophobe.
Just like there are varying degrees of how derogatory a word is there is also a limit to what people want to try.
I only brought it up in context because of the dichotomy of everything in this thread. I wish more people I knew were as cautious as you are.