Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Cad_sl said:
I disagree. Emotional manipulation would be him withholding attention, affection, sex, or otherwise until she complies with his wishes. She didn't describe any of that. He literally told her his desires and she took time to be ok with it. Thats called communication.
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If she hadn't brought up the emotional benefits to her involved with doing this I could have been more on board with that.

She is doing this to feel sexually powerful and to feel sexy, meaning her current husband doesn't do this. This guy hasn't even fucked her and she already has an emotional attachment.

If it was more of a "selected this dude on tinder because of his cock size and abs, I am going to his hotel and will leave in the morning and that is it" then I would be much more on board with "just sex". That would be open communication leading to just sex.
 
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a_skeleton_03 does have a good point the relationship seems to have crossed over the "just sex" benchmark into something with emotions evolved. I could see that being more problematic than just getting slammed.
 
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Hey Lindz, I think we need to see your tits just to be sure you aren't agreeing to fuck another dude under duress.
 
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I met this guy playing WoW. We flirted, I sent pics, he sent pics, we had phone sex. There is no emotional connection - at least on my end. I've posted pics here and had positive reactions that made me feel good, does that mean there is an emotional attachment from that? My husband makes me feel plenty sexy, but it always feels good when other people notice as well.
 
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I don't care if she sucks 37 dicks on the way to her car. She can tell her husband about it or not. It can be part of an "open" arrangement or cheating, who cares. Go get you some dick girl.

Just don't lie to yourself and really analyze wether the "marriage" is going to survive it.
 
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Sex is usually better when there's some connection, even if it's just mostly friendly or good rapport and not that emotional. And while her connection could be a problem eventually, you shouldn't take that and then completely ignore that it seems her relationship with her husband is doing very well (again, only from what she's written here, but that's all we have to go on). If she indicated in any way she was having problems in her relationship with her husband, there might be more to go on.
 
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lindz_sl said:
I met this guy playing WoW. We flirted, I sent pics, he sent pics, we had phone sex. There is no emotional connection - at least on my end. I've posted pics here and had positive reactions that made me feel good, does that mean there is an emotional attachment from that? My husband makes me feel plenty sexy, but it always feels good when other people notice as well.
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I know 3 marriages that have started with this EXACT scenario and the woman (2 of them) or the man left their spouse and married the new person. EXACT same scenario but it is WoW/EVE/SWG not just WoW.

Two of them then broke up their second marriage. The third is still married, EVE for those keeping stats.
 
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a_skeleton_03_sl said:
I don't care if she sucks 37 dicks on the way to her car. She can tell her husband about it or not. It can be part of an "open" arrangement or cheating, who cares. Go get you some dick girl.

Just don't lie to yourself and really analyze wether the "marriage" is going to survive it.
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You are painfully closed minded.
 
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a_skeleton_03_sl said:
I know 3 marriages that have started with this EXACT scenario and the woman (2 of them) or the man left their spouse and married the new person. EXACT same scenario but it is WoW/EVE/SWG not just WoW.
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You know 3 marriages that had a dude who got turned on by his wife sleeping with someone else? How many married couples do you know? Must be a lot, statistically speaking.
 
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Khane_sl said:
You know 3 marriages that had a dude who got turned on by his wife sleeping with someone else? How many married couples do you know? Must be a lot, statistically speaking.
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Not only that, but 3 marriages where they felt good enough about a_skeleton_03 to tell him about it. Thats a lot of bad judgment flying around.
 
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Khane_sl said:
You know 3 marriages that had a dude who got turned on by his wife sleeping with someone else? How many married couples do you know? Must be a lot, statistically speaking.
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That I consider in my group that would actually discuss all this? Quite low, probably 30.

We are busy people and prefer our own company. There have been about 30 total couples we have hung out with on a regular basis since getting married annd those three are part of that.group. Ten percent is low but we have only known one other open relationship and that one ended badly as well (she did proposition my wife once).
 
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You must be a lot different out in the real world than you are on the internet. Because there's no fucking way you have that many friends otherwise.
 
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Khane_sl said:
You know 3 marriages that had a dude who got turned on by his wife sleeping with someone else?How many married couples do you know? Must be a lot, statistically speaking.
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This was the part to emphasize. Not how people you know a_skeleton_03.
 
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