Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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She said she has no drive so she thought maybe more of it would help with that.
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Obviously I'm not an authority on the matter, but that seems counterintuitive. More unhappy sex will help indirectly by bringing the issue to head and causing both of you to deal with it in the correct manner. Whether that's talking, therapy, finding what kink truly turns her on, or maybe even medication.
I agree.
I may just take Soygens advice and rape her. She used to like it and now she's my property so should be fine.
Namon
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It is a phase and you just got to slog through it. Not only that you may want to pay attention to the time of her cycle. For my wife, I know it's 3 minutes of Missionary at each end but as we work towards peak "need a baby in me now" time, things that cause her discomfort completely flip and she wants me gnawing on those nipples and pulling her hair and what not during that wonderful week of instinctual horny bliss.
Soygen
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Whoa, whoa, whoa. I didn't say rape her. I just said to choke her until she once again has passion for you.
Noodleface
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My wife goes through phases where she's super horny or basically nothing at all. I wouldn't be too worried but scheduled sex screams baby to me.
My wife tried to have sex with me last night at 2am. I was up really late taking care of some paperwork for work (health insurance, mortgage, etc) . I was basically passing out but after the "what the fuck" situation last week I tried to be a team player. I was so tired my dick just kept collapsing. This turned into an emotional mess where she said she's awful at sex and always has been, etc. Basically last thing I wanted to deal with.
Cherry on top moment was I fell asleep while she was ranting and didn't wake up until this morning. Dreading going home haha.
My wife tried to have sex with me last night at 2am. I was up really late taking care of some paperwork for work (health insurance, mortgage, etc) . I was basically passing out but after the "what the fuck" situation last week I tried to be a team player. I was so tired my dick just kept collapsing. This turned into an emotional mess where she said she's awful at sex and always has been, etc. Basically last thing I wanted to deal with.
Cherry on top moment was I fell asleep while she was ranting and didn't wake up until this morning. Dreading going home haha.
Namon
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She'll just take all of her frustrations out on creeper fast food guy living with his parents... it's all good, nothing to worry about.
Noodleface
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Ever since his mom accosted my wife in the street I haven't seen the dude. He hasn't even returned a book he was borrowing.
Cad
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So... do people really just not talk to this degree? That they aren't sure if the wife wants a baby. That you can be an "emotional mess" without talking about it.
What do you people do when you're not actively fucking? Do you open your mouths and words come out? Do you direct them at each other? Do some of these words contain your feelings on various subjects?
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Khane
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You're a lawyer and you're asking if people really don't talk about shit.
Most people internalize shit because they don't like confrontation. And no matter how "open minded" someone thinks they are they usually get aggravated because disagreeing on even simple things can be challenging, let alone shit that actually matters.
And I can guarantee your own wife complains about you to other people about things you have no idea she even has a problem with.
Most people internalize shit because they don't like confrontation. And no matter how "open minded" someone thinks they are they usually get aggravated because disagreeing on even simple things can be challenging, let alone shit that actually matters.
And I can guarantee your own wife complains about you to other people about things you have no idea she even has a problem with.
I usually only talk about how smug and condescending some forum members are and she talks about how everything would be better if she were Asian.
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Cad
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It's entirely possible she does, but we do talk about nearly everything. She doesn't hold back on things she thinks displease her. And the last few years of financial independence means "why not both?" becomes the response to pretty much any disagreement.
Cad
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I don't think asking "do you talk about it? If not why not?" is smug or condescending. Most of these problems could absolutely be worked out if ya'll were open and honest and talked.