Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Mrs. Gravy

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So first friend zone dude calls or texts me every day. Other friend zone dude brought me coffee...to my office...I have been up front with both of them about friendship with no additional benefits or romantic future...more than once and directly with "I will eat lunch/dinner with you...but only as your friend, I have no intention of a romantic or sexual relationship with you." I apparently not good at this & must be doing something to project a possibility of pants action/romance for them. I do not want to be mean or considered a cunt but fuck. Do I just stop replying? I have known the one since grade school, the other h s. and will see them often enough for them to be uncomfortable...are women just not that up front? BTW...I am super friendly with everyone ...men, women, whatever gender identity... just don't feel I should have to change that for someone not figuring out I mean what I say. Guess I will just accept food and beverages without guilty feelings.

I think I just answered my own question, but feel free to comment at your pleasure.
 
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ZyyzYzzy

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Mrs. Gravy said:
So first friend zone dude calls or texts me every day. Other friend zone dude brought me coffee...to my office...I have been up front with both of them about friendship with no additional benefits or romantic future...more than once and directly with "I will eat lunch/dinner with you...but only as your friend, I have no intention of a romantic or sexual relationship with you." I apparently not good at this & must be doing something to project a possibility of pants action/romance for them. I do not want to be mean or considered a cunt but fuck. Do I just stop replying? I have known the one since grade school, the other h s. and will see them often enough for them to be uncomfortable...are women just not that up front? BTW...I am super friendly with everyone ...men, women, whatever gender identity... just don't feel I should have to change that for someone not figuring out I mean what I say. Guess I will just accept food and beverages without guilty feelings.

I think I just answered my own question, but feel free to comment at your pleasure.
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Use them as much as you can???
 
Noodleface

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Mrs G this is going to be painful to hear but men don't want female friends

Don't fight me on it, it's 100% true
 
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Khane

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Mrs. Gravy said:
So first friend zone dude calls or texts me every day. Other friend zone dude brought me coffee...to my office...I have been up front with both of them about friendship with no additional benefits or romantic future...more than once and directly with "I will eat lunch/dinner with you...but only as your friend, I have no intention of a romantic or sexual relationship with you." I apparently not good at this & must be doing something to project a possibility of pants action/romance for them. I do not want to be mean or considered a cunt but fuck. Do I just stop replying? I have known the one since grade school, the other h s. and will see them often enough for them to be uncomfortable...are women just not that up front? BTW...I am super friendly with everyone ...men, women, whatever gender identity... just don't feel I should have to change that for someone not figuring out I mean what I say. Guess I will just accept food and beverages without guilty feelings.

I think I just answered my own question, but feel free to comment at your pleasure.
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You can't reason with a chump Mrs. G. They probably think life is like a movie where if they just try hard enough you'll eventually fall in love with them.

The only thing to do with a chump is cut off all contact completely. Can't even friend zone a chump. They just don't get it.

Basically what Noodle said.
 
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BrotherWu

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Noodleface said:
Mrs G this is going to be painful to hear but men don't want female friends

Don't fight me on it, it's 100% true
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Mrs. Gravy said:
So first friend zone dude calls or texts me every day. Other friend zone dude brought me coffee...to my office...I have been up front with both of them about friendship with no additional benefits or romantic future...more than once and directly with "I will eat lunch/dinner with you...but only as your friend, I have no intention of a romantic or sexual relationship with you." I apparently not good at this & must be doing something to project a possibility of pants action/romance for them. I do not want to be mean or considered a cunt but fuck. Do I just stop replying? I have known the one since grade school, the other h s. and will see them often enough for them to be uncomfortable...are women just not that up front? BTW...I am super friendly with everyone ...men, women, whatever gender identity... just don't feel I should have to change that for someone not figuring out I mean what I say. Guess I will just accept food and beverages without guilty feelings.

I think I just answered my own question, but feel free to comment at your pleasure.
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So are you telling us two guys who are in there 40s are walking around you like they have some kind of puppy dog love? This seems hard to believe for me.

So clearly Mrs. G still has lots of game.

I have question do you have any other way you related to these two besides as acquaintances? Do you have some kind of interest that you share with them? If the answer is none then that is a really awkward situation. I am not sure how you should handle it.
 
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TrollfaceDeux

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one romantic encounter, i tried hard enough and made it after like 2-3 rejections. full drama. insane heartache. weird follow up and relationship.

However, I cannot vouch for other men. my case was special and was only possible due to unconventional methods which I will not reveal.

one thing for sure.
constant engagement doesn't mean shit. each engagement has to be memorable and powerful enough to leave a lasting impact.
 
ZyyzYzzy

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consensus said:
one romantic encounter, i tried hard enough and made it after like 2-3 rejections. full drama. insane heartache. weird follow up and relationship.

However, I cannot vouch for other men. my case was special and was only possible due to unconventional methods which I will not reveal.
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You're a weird dude
 
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Alex

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Sometimes that fairy tale ending of a persistent dude works out. One of my roommates from college was absolutely infatuated with this girl he went to high school with. Pursued her multiple times. Confessed his love to her and all that. Rejected multiple times. They're married now.
 
Hoss

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Mrs G is beyond the part of her life where she might get desperate and decide to settle. Also, how many side dicks do you reckon your ex roomie's wife has? If you answer a number less than 1, you're delusional.
 
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