And the super nice but crazy girl just went nuts. Apparently 3-4 weeks is the length she can keep it together before flipping the fuck out. Well, it was fun while it lasted, really glad I got the kinky sex in while it was on the table!
As far as what the deal was about? A few days ago I had a cleaning lady come over to look at my house and give me a cost on maid service. A friend of mine suggested it, as he pays $80 a month for this girl to come clean his house once a week, and swears its the best decision he's ever made. I'm really clean to begin with, so I wanted to find out how much it would cost for every other week, or twice a month. Well, I told the girl I was seeing about it, and told her I seemed to get along well with the girl while showing her around my house, and she didn't seem sketchy or anything, so I was probably going to do it. Her reaction was "Was she attractive?" and I went "Uhh, Not really my type, but yeah, she wasn't bad looking or anything." Her reaction "Well, its good to know I'm trying to build a relationship with you and your apparently looking at other girls and wishing you could fiuck them." or some such nonsense.
This was out of the blue, and nuts, so I just responded with "I didn't say that, you are starting to freak out over nothing here. Just because I see an attractive person doesn't mean I'm going to fuck them. I went to Chipotle today for lunch and guess what, the girl who rang me up was cute too, I'm going to see attractive people, you have no reason to be jealous. I can't help being attracted to people, but I want to be with you. You're the only person I have plans to have sex with, so cool it with the jealousy stuff ok?" She calmed down, but I went home that night going "And so it BEGINS!"
Everything good for a couple days, and just got a text out of the blue saying that she loves me, but that she knows I don't love her, and am only using her for sex and that if I want to be with the girl at Chipotle so bad I just should, since apparently I'm already making a list of people I want to fuck when I'm done with her, etc etc.
I texted back that I'm really sorry it didn't work out, that I had a lot of lovely times with her, and was very happy when things where going well, but that when things weren't it seemed to crush her whole world and just ended up making us both feel bad. I wished her only the best and told her she was an amazing person who I could only see good things happening too, and I'm sorry again that it didn't work out between us, I'm still her friend, and if she never needed anything, I'm just a phone call away.
I thought that was a nice reasonable way to back out of the room slowly hopefully.
She responded that I had never truly loved her, and that I was just using her, and that I'm a selfish asshole. She told me to lose her number and leave her alone.
I sent nothing back to that, because A-OKAY. Like I told you guys before, I learned my lesson the first time, in a lot of real ways she is right, this go around I was just in it for as long as it was a good time. Apparently that phase has ended, so I'll get right off the ride.
She sent like 9 more texts after that, but its all just more of the same nonsense, and I haven't responded at all, and don't plan on it.
It's weird, because this is EASILY the most drama filled, venument hateful stuff anyones ever said to me, but I'm completely uncaring, mostly because its all just complete drivel. I'm happy that I'm not going to have to maintain this anymore (tons of texting every day), and feel like I'm happy with the all the sex stuff that the whole thing provided, but it's still weird having someone mad and breaking up with me I guess? Pretty sure just about every relationship I've ever had has either been me breaking it off, or a mutual thing.
Anyway, there's the drama update for everyone.
Maybe I'll go get Chipotle for dinner. Lol.
