Marriage and the Power of Divorce

I choose to believe

And who cares if she's married. She pursued him. She made her decision and he had very little agency. It's a different thing if he's trying to charm her hard after knowing she's married.

Ya, I may not believe it, but I also don't think it's a huge scumbag move to bang some married broad that you've known for 5 mins that's hyper aggressive and grabbing your ding dong. Not my fucking problem your wife turns into a whore when she goes out of town. That's kind of the whole point of going to Las Vegas.

I probably wouldn't bang a married chick without the husband's approval, but it's on her, not Onoes. Keep up the good work - doesn't sound like it was that great, though.

I guess if ALL you're looking for is a dick-wetting then who cares. But you get what you pay for and all... you'd do better with an escort if that's all you want out of banging a married chick.

Not a streetwalker. No need to get all Jersey with it. A professional.

This one is no less crazy than the last one. Talking to her husband on the phone... reaching for your hand... then asks you if it makes it less weird? Nah man. Nah.

I choose to believe that one was a penthouse letter.

I don't believe solely based on the RL picture I saw of Onoes on this forum.

Didn't really have a "Women offer to have sex with me after looking at me for an hour" look to it.

On a side note this year is my 5 year marriage anniversary and I am happy to report my wife has put zero weight on since the nuptials, life is good.

Wow, so at one point she went to take a shower last night, and I hopped on here for a bit on my phone, and was super surprised. First, at the people calling B.S., I tell you all my retarded stuff, no idea why you think I would just start making shit up. There have been plenty of times where I've been kind of quiet for a while, because nothings going on. Still, there wasn't much I could do to prove it, since yesterday she made a point of saying no pictures together, but since she was in the shower, here's something. Believe it if you want?



As for the second thing....?

There sure seems to be a strong push for the sanctity of marriage from a lot of you, in a thread who's primary aim is to encourage the dissolution of said marriage. I mean, I guess its a touchy issue, but if you reread my posts, I was never upset with my wife for her potential fooling around. I said often, if I had had the opportunity to cheat on her, I would have, as I didn't really want our marriage to end, I was just lonely and needed more. I can understand being at that point. I wouldn't date a married late, thats god damned insane, and while I did have to roll this whole thing around my moral compass a bit to decide, ultimately I decided that if a married lady wants to have an affair on a trip for a couple of days, and all it is for me is mutual consensual sex, why should that bother me? She seems very comfortable with this whole thing, so my guess is that it is not her first time doing this, and I don't see her calling me or anything. Truth be told, I'm not even really sure she likes me all that much, she's very hard to read. She seems like an intelligent, serious, adult woman, who has an entire life well in order, but who needs this sexual fling and can handle that. /shrug. I've never been with a married woman before, but it's honestly just not bothering me all that much. The initial night I was kind of on the spot trying to figure out where I stood, and I'm in no way targeting married woman or anything, but for a couple of days on a trip?

I think a large part is "having been there" emotionally. I've never cheated on anyone, ever. Not even stupid shit in high school, I was always incredibly against that. Now I can understand loving someone, not wanting to end it with them, but having a large hole in the relationship where intimacy should be. There is only so much you can do, and it gets to a point where you have three options - Ignore it and be unhappy, end it and lose a lot, or fill that need somewhere else and continue on. I was at a point where I would have cheated on her if I saw the opportunity and was sure there was no way it could have gotten back to her, I would have. Maybe it wouldn't have fixed anything, or maybe we wold still be together, I have no idea. I'm very glad with the direction my choices have led. I don't know this ladies situation, and maybe I'm putting too much of my own feeling onto her so as to understand, maybe she's just a bad person, but ultimately, I'm not responsible for whatever betrayals she engages in.

I don't know, I'm still just really surprised at the outrage.

As a side note, after dinner last night, she called her husband, and had him put the phone up to her 3 dogs one at a time so she could babytalk how much she misses them and how soon mommy will be home. It was somewhere between hilarious and terrifying for me.

It's obviously not her first time doing something like this. She pursued him. He's not being a home-wrecker or any shit. Get off your high horses.

No no no, I met her Thursday morning, we are all sitting at tables, assigned places, and she just happened to be assigned next to me, she lives in Maine or something. We got paired up during the day doing an introduction thing, and then several more times during the day for little example problems and things. Honestly, the entire Thursday conference was a total waste of my time. This whole thing is set up both for accountants and It Techs, most of the actual IT stuff isn't being shown until this weekend however. I bailed on the whole thing yesterday and just went to Godzilla and The Neighbors, and did some shopping.

So no, I don't know her, and I don't imagine I will ever see her again past this weekend. I did get sent down here with another guy from work, but he's an accountant as well, and not very fun to be around.

As far as looks, Crazy definitely wins. This girl dresses very well, and don't get me wrong, she's not bad, but when her dress, high heals, and jewelry come off... very very plain. I want to use the word "frumpy". But she smells nice, and is soft and in decent shape (better than me for sure), so I can't really complain. The really nice thing is how polished and posh she looks the rest of the time. Makeup, fancy clothes and bags, it's never been anything I've really cared about, but there's something really nice about it. So, bonus points for that.

Edit: I know what it is, she just seems really classy and socially high standing, if that makes any sense, both her dress and her attitude. It's just something different, so its kind of exciting. Ohh but, no way I could ever date someone like this.

Have her keep the dress and heels on?