Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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All right need groups opinion. I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years. We get along great and I expect we will grow old together. My kids from previous marriage and I currently get our insurance through my girlfriend because we are considered domestic partners. After November her company will no longer support the whole domestic partnership situation. So it's either get married or get insurance through my own company. My girlfriends insurance is better and cheaper than what I would get through my company.

Here's the thing my previous marriage totally disintegrated. It's been 9 years since my divorce and my exwife cant talk to me on the phone. I just have no compulsion to repeat that experience again. I know this is my baggage but it's hard to let go of it. Part of me is afraid that the moment I put a ring on her finger things will change.

50% of marriages end in divorce. You've already had your divorce so the odds are in your favor. Do it faggot.
 

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Don't the statistics suggest marriages after the first are more prone to failure? Pretty sure the divorce statistic for first marriages are closer to like 27%, and people who get married more than once skew the results towards 50% because fuck getting married more than once.
 
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Captain Suave

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Don't the statistics suggest marriages after the first are more prone to failure? Pretty sure the divorce statistic for first marriages are closer to like 27%, and people who get married more than once skew the results towards 50% because fuck getting married more than once.


Brief googling says in the US ~45% of first marriages end in divorce, rising to 60% for second and 73% for third marriages. I don't think those figures have a lot of meaningful information for someone in Omi's shoes since divorce isn't a random event.
 

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Incrediably small sample size. It seems like people I know a significant number who got a divorce seem to get in the habit of having one after another.

Edit - was typing as the stats were posted.
 

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See that? Not getting married... they don't call me Mr. "Got something right about marriage" for nothin!
 
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Brief googling says in the US ~45% of first marriages end in divorce, rising to 60% for second and 73% for third marriages. I don't think those figures have a lot of meaningful information for someone in Omi's shoes since divorce isn't a random event.

What % of marriages for white/asian educated people for whom this question matters?

I don't give a fuck what trailer park meth heads or nogs do with their marriages, and they certainly aren't interested in my opinion either.
 
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Khane

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What % of marriages for white/asian educated people for whom this question matters?

I don't give a fuck what trailer park meth heads or nogs do with their marriages, and they certainly aren't interested in my opinion either.

That's very specific. Why do you care about the percentages for white/asian educated people?

And why should statistics be tailored to your own prejudices?

How about just saying "what do the statistics say for educated people who make enough money to live comfortably above the poverty line"? Dipshit.
 

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That's very specific. Why do you care about the percentages for white/asian educated people?

And why should statistics be tailored to your own prejudices?

I don't mean mixed marriages, just white and asian people who are college educated.

I'll save you the suspense. It's way lower than quoted.
 
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I didn't get married 20 years ago because she didn't want to sign a prenuptial. Land only nothing in it about money and things we earned together. Eventually it faded away and I thought she never wanted to get married. But we managed to stay together for 20 years and were pretty happy the way things worked out. When she asked me to marry her late last year she said she would sign it. I let it go and she didn't. Odd how things can work out.
 

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I don't mean mixed marriages, just white and asian people who are college educated.

I'll save you the suspense. It's way lower than quoted.

How about all people who are educated. And there is no suspense. Yea, it's way lower than quoted. For all races. Not just white and asian.

Education is the deciding factor. Not race. Don't be a piece of shit.
 
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How about all people who are educated. And there is no suspense. Yea, it's way lower than quoted. For all races. Not just white and asian.

Education makes a difference for all races, yes.

Is the educated black divorce rate still significantly higher than the white?

Want to sit here and act like the race makes no difference?
 

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Want to sit here and act like the race makes no difference?

Race doesn't make a difference. Quality of life and education does. Access to those two things does. You're a smart guy, I know that you are. Don't be a prick and let that leak into this section of the forums.

If you honestly believe that being born black means you can't be as intelligent, well adjusted, and grow up into a functioning adult the same way a white or asian person can you've got a lot of learning to do yourself.
 

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Race doesn't make a difference. Quality of life and education does. Access to those two things does. You're a smart guy, I know that you are. But Jesus you are a racist piece of shit.

What creates quality of life? Do you think the quality of life for blacks is lower because of __________ ?

We can play this game all day.
 

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So now you're ready to shift the goal posts and talk about socioeconomic issues? That's not how the argument was framed. You said White and Asian educated people and completely left out all other races/ethnicities that are also educated. As if only white and asians can be truly educated.

You're not gonna win this argument, because you're framing it like a racist piece of shit.
 
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So now you're ready to shift the goal posts and talk about socioeconomic issues? That's not how the argument was framed. You said White and Asian educated people and completely left out all other races/ethnicities that are also educated. As if only white and asians can be truly educated.

You inferred that. I didn't say other races can't be educated. I just said I don't care about them.

You're not gonna win this argument, because you're framing it like a racist piece of shit.

You've decided the answer before you know the statistics.

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Khane

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What you said:

What % of marriages for white/asian educated people for whom this question matters?

What you should have said:

What % of marriages for educated people for whom this question matters?

Post idiotic pictures that straw man the argument all you want. You're wrong. This isn't the fucking gamergate thread.
 

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What you said:



What you should have said:



Post idiotic pictures that straw man the argument all you want. You're wrong. This isn't the fucking gamergate thread.

No, I should have said exactly what I said, which is why I said it.

You don't want to acknowledge why black divorce rates would be higher for all socioeconomic tiers, but that doesn't make it any less true.

You just keep saying I shouldn't say that and that I'm wrong, but providing no reasoning. I do not care if you call me racist.
 
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Captain Suave

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What % of marriages


Educated cohorts divorce far less, unsurprisingly. You'll have to pull the raw data and do your own math to get comparisons by both ethnicity and education.

 
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Khane

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You know Cad you're right. Humans are like dog breeds. And clearly whites and asians are better dog breeds.

Just fucking stop. You're embarrassing yourself.
 
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Cad

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You know Cad you're right. Humans are like dog breeds. And clearly whites and asians are better dog breeds.

Just fucking stop. You're embarrassing yourself.

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