Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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lurkingdirk

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I don't think a real human wants to spend time with him. From all of his posts, he has no personality, only cares about looks, including his, and has a drug problem himself.

Then I revise my statement:

Stop surrounding yourself with other drug users. Get clean, and become a human being.
 
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Ossoi

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How many red flags have people encountered in his description of this woman? I think I stopped counting at 20.

Get out now. Never see her again. Do some soul searching and find a human being to spend your time with.

I haven't even mentioned the two biggest, and upon reflection I should have ditched her when she told me these two things in November.

And before this year when I started partying with the Dominatrix I hadn't touched party drugs for seven years. Now it's a bit of coke at every party, so every 6 weeks. Not a big deal
 
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ZyyzYzzy

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I haven't even mentioned the two biggest, and upon reflection I should have ditched her when she told me these two things in November.

And before this year when I started partying with the Dominatrix I hadn't touched party drugs for seven years. Now it's a bit of coke at every party, so every 6 weeks. Not a big deal
Keep lying to yourself
 
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Kiroy

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Oh, and btw when I was with her in November I couldn't cum once over several days. Delayed ejaculation has been something I've always struggled with.

I've been doing no-fap on and off since Summer, and knowing I'd be with her over Xmas gave me good incentive to no-fap and hopefully "reset" my cock and get it used to cumming without my "death grip"

So I'd gone like 28 days without jerking off which is a record and it's not exactly easy.

So yeah, I wanted to get laid and first time I came in like 30 seconds lol.

Next day lasted like five minutes.

None of this is normal behavior.

If you're trying to better yourself as a man, "no fap" and cumming in some dumpster psycho after 30 seconds is not it. I'd suggest a complete u-turn in how you're looking at / for woman. Figure out how to find a quality girl that you can have a meaningful relationship with and drop the porn (but jerk off when you need to). You've mentioned you're hard to get along with so you may need to do some serious work on yourself in order to find a girl worth dealing with.
 
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lurkingdirk

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I haven't even mentioned the two biggest, and upon reflection I should have ditched her when she told me these two things in November.

And before this year when I started partying with the Dominatrix I hadn't touched party drugs for seven years. Now it's a bit of coke at every party, so every 6 weeks. Not a big deal

"A bit of coke" and "not a big deal" don't belong together in any paragraph.

Well, cat's out of the bag now, what are the two biggest red flags?

And why are you self destructive?
 
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Khane

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It's just a bit of herpes, not a big deal. I have the body of a 20 year old
 
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Ossoi

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"A bit of coke" and "not a big deal" don't belong together in any paragraph.

Only people that don't have any experience/knowledge of what drugs are like say that.

A bit of blow every 4-6 weeks is not a big deal. The last party got cancelled, then went ahead with only ten people. People there were passing out coke and pills but I declined, because there's simply nothing to be gained from it.

In a larger social setting good coke just gives you a bit of confidence, makes you a bit more chatty, which is helpful if you're an introvert and often stuck in your head.

Coke is inconsistent, even in the UK which is presumably a major market when compared to some Eastern European Country. I can say with 100% certainty I could never touch it again.

Likewise, when I was going out regularly, I preferred MDMA/ecstasy. And a) I only saved it for special occasions, 2-3x a year to avoid building a tolerance b) everything was tested with reagents to make sure it was legit and c) everything was measured out into decent dosages.

The only time I've had a "drug" problem was with mephedrone aka bath salts, because that shit was legal so you could order it online, and because it was legal and cheap even if you didn't buy any, everyone on a night out would be passing it around like candy.
 
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ZyyzYzzy

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Only people that don't have any experience/knowledge of what drugs are like say that.

A bit of blow every 4-6 weeks is not a big deal. The last party got cancelled, then went ahead with only ten people. People there were passing out coke and pills but I declined, because there's simply nothing to be gained from it.

In a larger social setting good coke just gives you a bit of confidence, makes you a bit more chatty, which is helpful if you're an introvert and often stuck in your head.

Coke is inconsistent, even in the UK which is presumably a major market when compared to some Eastern European Country. I can say with 100% certainty I could never touch it again.

Likewise, when I was going out regularly, I preferred MDMA/ecstasy. And a) I only saved it for special occasions, 2-3x a year to avoid building a tolerance b) everything was tested with reagents to make sure it was legit and c) everything was measured out into decent dosages.

The only time I've had a "drug" problem was with mephedrone aka bath salts, because that shit was legal so you could order it online, and because it was legal and cheap even if you didn't buy any, everyone on a night out would be passing it around like candy.
You're a child. I'd start with acting like an adult
 
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lurkingdirk

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Only people that don't have any experience/knowledge of what drugs are like say that.

A bit of blow every 4-6 weeks is not a big deal. The last party got cancelled, then went ahead with only ten people. People there were passing out coke and pills but I declined, because there's simply nothing to be gained from it.

In a larger social setting good coke just gives you a bit of confidence, makes you a bit more chatty, which is helpful if you're an introvert and often stuck in your head.

Coke is inconsistent, even in the UK which is presumably a major market when compared to some Eastern European Country. I can say with 100% certainty I could never touch it again.

Likewise, when I was going out regularly, I preferred MDMA/ecstasy. And a) I only saved it for special occasions, 2-3x a year to avoid building a tolerance b) everything was tested with reagents to make sure it was legit and c) everything was measured out into decent dosages.

The only time I've had a "drug" problem was with mephedrone aka bath salts, because that shit was legal so you could order it online, and because it was legal and cheap even if you didn't buy any, everyone on a night out would be passing it around like candy.

I have some knowledge and experience with drugs, and yes it is a big deal to do a little coke every 4-6 weeks. Start there. Fix that about yourself first, then go to work on everything else.
 

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Oh, and btw when I was with her in November I couldn't cum once over several days. Delayed ejaculation has been something I've always struggled with.

I've been doing no-fap on and off since Summer, and knowing I'd be with her over Xmas gave me good incentive to no-fap and hopefully "reset" my cock and get it used to cumming without my "death grip"

So I'd gone like 28 days without jerking off which is a record and it's not exactly easy.

So yeah, I wanted to get laid and first time I came in like 30 seconds lol.

Next day lasted like five minutes.
You are a trainwreck with some big issues that tries to mask it all under the facade of being "ripped" and whatever the fuck you project at fetish parties.

Stop going to fetish parties and start going to a psychologist. Or hell pick up a normal hobby besides getting drugged up with a bunch of random degenerates as you bask in the admiration of gay dudes.
 
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The_Black_Log Foler

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Weve had this same talk with the dude like 5 times by now. Doesn't learn, doesn't wanna change his life around, etc.
 

ZyyzYzzy

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He honestly should he posting this degenerative behavior in the GHBYHT.

Side note, little rustled my wife spent a bit more than we discussed on Christmas gifts for everyone, but slightly less since my FIL bought me a few bottles of decent liquor once he found out about all the gifts she got.
 
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The_Black_Log Foler

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As far as I'm concerned he completely simped out to an extremely ugly druggy, missing teeth, fat, escort and until we see proof otherwise i believe this case is closed.
 
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TJT

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Ossoi Ossoi bro you are almost 40 years old and you're acting like you're 23. Which is fine but seriously you're too pussy to just embrace the crazy and ride it out. Which is what I would have done when I was 23. Rather than ask advice about how to handle some psycho.

If you want to live any kind of life that is not like the life of a 23 year old you need to stop hanging around these people and find some, at least slightly more, normal mofos. Your entire social circle is seemingly nothing but fringe fetishist degenerats and maybe some classic wow private server neckbeards.
 
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Phazael

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Play degenerate games, win degenerate prizes. Notice how only you are surprised by anything that has happened here Ossi? Thats cocaine doing what it does. The rest is you being a vain shallow degenerate and expecting normalcy.
 
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fris

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I think it's funny that even a drunk bi-polar basket case can recognize your infatuation w/ the dom
 
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Lenas

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And before this year when I started partying with the Dominatrix I hadn't touched party drugs for seven years. Now it's a bit of coke at every party, so every 6 weeks. Not a big deal

You deserve covid you stupid fuck
 
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Alex

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I have some knowledge and experience with drugs, and yes it is a big deal to do a little coke every 4-6 weeks. Start there. Fix that about yourself first, then go to work on everything else.

Meh. If I'm hanging with friends and we end up doing some coke once every 2-4 months I don't think it's a big deal at all. Not sure how something you do so rarely can be such a big problem. But some of the people on this forum have habitual Sunday church attendee level "moral standards" so I guess it shouldn't be to surprising.
 
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Gavinmad

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Meh. If I'm hanging with friends and we end up doing some coke once every 2-4 months I don't think it's a big deal at all. Not sure how something you do so rarely can be such a big problem. But some of the people on this forum have habitual Sunday church attendee level "moral standards" so I guess it shouldn't be to surprising.
Look we understand that a Bengals fan has to resort to that kind of thing just to cope with their constant crushing disappointment.
 
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Kiroy

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Meh. If I'm hanging with friends and we end up doing some coke once every 2-4 months I don't think it's a big deal at all. Not sure how something you do so rarely can be such a big problem. But some of the people on this forum have habitual Sunday church attendee level "moral standards" so I guess it shouldn't be to surprising.

it's perfectly fine if you don't have to then come into an ancient video game forum to ask for assistance because your life is a mess and almost none of your behaviors fall within the spectrum of normal human behavior
 
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