Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Julian The Apostate

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"Alright then I guess if u can drop off my license and clothes to me tomorrow id appreciate it"

Hahaha that's what she texted me back, looks like we're done boys.
 
Julian The Apostate

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What a fucking flake. She was talking to me last night about us driving down to her parents at the end of July. This is our first incident that could even be considered to be a fight and she ends it.
 
Eomer

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Yeah, bitch is probably crazy. But let this serve as a lesson as well: no talking about your divorce or your ex in any detail other than "yeah I'm recently divorced" with the new girls unless you're getting truly serious. That means months, not days. That shit is just asking for trouble.
 
Noodleface

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Make sure you go get an STD test done.

She fucked you fast, often, and with the vigor of a porn star. I have a feeling you weren't the first.
 
DiddleySquat

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Eomer_sl said:
Honest question: why in the fuck would you tell her about it, this early on? There is no positive outcome to that conversation, whatsoever. She's over reacting sure, but you brought that shit on yourself.
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This. No woman - not even the cool, evenheaded ones - will ever get a good feeling out of you telling her something like that.
It's not too late to save the relationship, but you have to show her you're sorry and you like her (some kind words, flowers, ...),nottell her "chill out, I got this".
 
Gavinmad

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It's also possible she thinks you were trying to provoke a jealous response by mentioning your ex (what kind of idiot does that anyway) and then you basically shut her down when she acted jealous. Regardless of whether she's crazy or not, this can really be traced back to how dumb it was to bring up meeting your ex.
 
Julian The Apostate

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Me and my ex were only officially divorced like 3-4 weeks ago and still had some details of the divorce to iron out including depositing some checks together and I'll need to work with her to get her name off the deed of my house in the near future. Just real world adult loose ends that need to be tied up. I'd rather get everything done with my ex on somewhat friendly term rather that tell her to go fuck herself. My ex can still make things difficult for me.

Also telling the new girl that shit was in absolutely no way an attempt to make her jealous. She knew I was recently divorced and I won't sneak around meeting my ex at the bank without my significant other knowing about it.
 
Joeboo

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Julian the Apostate_sl said:
Also telling the new girl that shit was in absolutely no way an attempt to make her jealous. She knew I was recently divorced and I won't sneak around meeting my ex at the bank withoutmy significant otherknowing about it.
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She was not your significant other. You guys had been "dating" for a week or so. There's no reason to mention things concerning past relationships or personal happenings that don't have any consequence to her in the first week of dating someone.

You save the heavy shit for months in, after things have settled down. There's a decent chance that yes, she is batshit crazy and you saved yourself some trouble by figuring this out quickly but there's also a decent chance that she thinks the same of you, talking about your ex and crap within the first week of dating someone new. That's a huge no-no. Hell, I've been with my wife for 4 years now and she knows zero about 99% of my past relationships before her. Why? Because it doesn't matter and doesn't effect her in any way whatsoever, so why bring it up.
 
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I still can't believe you people took like a trip and she was leaving shit at your house after a week. I know this isn't the dating thread but pump the brakes bro.
 
Julian The Apostate

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Tenks_sl said:
I still can't believe you people took like a trip and she was leaving shit at your house after a week. I know this isn't the dating thread but pump the brakes bro.
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She left a sweater at my house on morning after she spent the night and also I was carrying a jacket of hers in my backpack when we were hiking that I forgot to give her back. Not like she was moving in or anything.
 
Noodleface

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My wife made me do a 20 mile charity walk every year so I feel your pain, sort of. I mean, we fucked like 3 days later.
 
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