Noodleface
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Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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Guest, it's time once again for the massively important and exciting FoH Asshat Tournament!
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Noodleface
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I'm getting slammed on the reg now pretty much, she just don't clean fuckin shit in this place
Jysin
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Palum
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Chaos, I'm not trying to imply that everything change instantly, nor am I actually stating the only way out of your situation is abandoning your wife. But not being tough in trying to solve your problems is not helping your wife any either. Also, therapy isn't worthless, but good therapists are exceedingly rare. Where you are right now is waiting for a magical solution to come fix anxiety. That will never happen. People who have anxiety problems don't just learn how to deal with it overnight and drugs do not change behavior. It's very like learning to deal with fears. You have to identify the individual issues and face them, it's a very slow process of working through handling a myriad of situations in normal every day life, talking about them and correcting them.
Julian The Apostate
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Well more bad decisions incoming. Got on Tinder Sunday and I'm going out with a cute 19 year college student on Thursday. I think she is part Indian, part black. Or maybe full Indian. Who knows? What could possible go wrong?
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Honestly, I really want to know what goes through the minds of late teens/early-20s women that go out with men twice their age. Do they actually believe they have a shot at being this guy's exclusive girlfriend/wife? How do they rationalize this? Do they not have friends that call them out on this? I mean, guys will high five you if you fuck an 18-year old, but I'd fully expect to get called on it if I were to actually date or enter into a relationship with one.
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Julian The Apostate
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Julian The Apostate
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I know you guys really don't give a shit about me and want to see crazy nurse but I feel like I need to still give that situation some time to cool down before I post pics. Here I am, Ive been losing weight over the last couple months and I am down to 190 from about 220 a year ago. Still have a bit more to go until I'm at my prime fucking weight.
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BrutulTM
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18 year old girls are the dumbest creatures that roam the earth with the possible exception of 18 year old boys. You don't need to overthink what's going through their heads, they are just too dumb to realize that any 30+ year old that want's to hang out with them is actually a creep.
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Phazael
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What Brutal said-
They are trading nookie for nice stuff. Women in general can rationalize anything to fit their interests, now imagine the same mindset in some girl who is immature and getting showered in gifts. Julian is 30, if I recall, so its not quite full on creep. As long as she is just looking to trade dinner and cab fare for snapper, as opposed to an actual relationship.
@Chaos-
Not trying to judge your wife in any manner, but I stand by my view that you need to take command of the situation. This is not about who's fault something is anymore. Its about solving a shitty situation before you are miserable for the rest of both of your lives and your kids end up fucked up as a result. Just tossing pills at her and going in a holding pattern is going to end up with you two being resentful of each other and your kids getting a warped upbringing. Eventually, you will end up banging some divorcee or (worse) some dumb college age girl you cross paths with and your wife will take you to the cleaners because "it was all your fault". The courts won't give a shit that she has not even touched your pee pee for a decade and that she just sits like a lump watching cable TV all day. Whatever you feel for this woman and however you want to address it, you NEED to solve this shit before it pushes you over the edge.
They are trading nookie for nice stuff. Women in general can rationalize anything to fit their interests, now imagine the same mindset in some girl who is immature and getting showered in gifts. Julian is 30, if I recall, so its not quite full on creep. As long as she is just looking to trade dinner and cab fare for snapper, as opposed to an actual relationship.
@Chaos-
Not trying to judge your wife in any manner, but I stand by my view that you need to take command of the situation. This is not about who's fault something is anymore. Its about solving a shitty situation before you are miserable for the rest of both of your lives and your kids end up fucked up as a result. Just tossing pills at her and going in a holding pattern is going to end up with you two being resentful of each other and your kids getting a warped upbringing. Eventually, you will end up banging some divorcee or (worse) some dumb college age girl you cross paths with and your wife will take you to the cleaners because "it was all your fault". The courts won't give a shit that she has not even touched your pee pee for a decade and that she just sits like a lump watching cable TV all day. Whatever you feel for this woman and however you want to address it, you NEED to solve this shit before it pushes you over the edge.
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I was just curious how it all finally ended. Did she just finally stop trying to get ahold of you?
Julian The Apostate
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Yeah she stopped calling and texting me after all those texts that one day.
Last night I pulled my phone out of my pocket and I was in the process of ass dialing her from my voice message screen. I hung up immediately but she did text me later and asked what I wanted, told me that I just walked out on her, and told me not to worry because she wasn't pregnant lol.
Last night I pulled my phone out of my pocket and I was in the process of ass dialing her from my voice message screen. I hung up immediately but she did text me later and asked what I wanted, told me that I just walked out on her, and told me not to worry because she wasn't pregnant lol.