I'll over generalize here and tell you that black women(or at least the type the date white men) are waaaaay better at hiding the crazy from you. They are devious with that shit.
Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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Noodleface
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Julian take all of your training to heart on this one. After one date you do not love her, and you aren't going hiking.
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Noodleface
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Dinner somewhere. Made her a cake for desert. We'd be living together 6 years at that point, dating for 11+, so the pomp was all gone. Now, we have a kid and she suggested going to a place with "express" in the name. I'm slowly breaking her down. Do something special for her because you want to, not because our society expects you to.
Sorry, that was a bit ranty.
Paper anniversary means I bought tickets for the two of us to go to a show she wanted to see.
Noodleface
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Deathwing, I do want to do something nice. Just wondering what others did. We've been living together for 6 years too, so I'm not a super romantic dude anymore.
I probably won't follow the old school style, I didn't know people still did that!
Xarpolis
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My wife and I never had an official honeymoon. With that in mind, we spent our 1 year anniversary in Japan. It was my first time seeing the country, so we went for 3 weeks and got to see a lot of neat shit. I can't wait for my next trip the beginning of September.
It's a great way to be quaintly romantic while not having to work terribly hard to have a gift idea. You don't end up on the hook for a another diamond til anniversary number 60!
Xarpolis
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I gotta say, I get a real kick out of that myself.
But at the same time, I'm really fucking miserable to buy gifts for. I tend to buy everything I want. For christmas/birthdays, I'll stop buying things and just tell other people instead. As a result, I can (usually) guess 95% of my gifts. I'd like to think it's creative, but if you tell someone to buy you a DVD and something comes in that shape... well, chances are...
I feel for her in that regard. She has trouble doing a real surprise gift for me, yet I go out of my way to do it EVERY year for her. *shrugs* Maybe she could do it and I'm just being hard on myself. Who knows. Anyway, I still enjoy it.
But at the same time, I'm really fucking miserable to buy gifts for. I tend to buy everything I want. For christmas/birthdays, I'll stop buying things and just tell other people instead. As a result, I can (usually) guess 95% of my gifts. I'd like to think it's creative, but if you tell someone to buy you a DVD and something comes in that shape... well, chances are...
I feel for her in that regard. She has trouble doing a real surprise gift for me, yet I go out of my way to do it EVERY year for her. *shrugs* Maybe she could do it and I'm just being hard on myself. Who knows. Anyway, I still enjoy it.
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Late response but my plan is for the first date meet somewhere cheap for drinks during happy hour time. I usually go to a bar I never go too so it doesn't run the risk of seeing her again if it fails. I'll never buy them a drink, it's online dating so the first date shouldn't even be a date, just a meeting to make sure they aren't fat and you have at least a mild amount of chemistry. Then if you want from there, you can go on real dates.
I've also just grabbed a six pack of beer and just drank in the park for first meetings. I'm usually out no more than ten bucks by the end.
Dudes who are paying for first online dates are suckers, the girls obviously just as if not more desperate than you are since she's on there too.
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Flowers delivered to her office so she could brag to all her co-workers.
Nice dinner and drinks out on the town.
This is the whole point of flowers now. Wife was bummed when she came home from work to flowers. If she ever complains over something like that again its over.
I thought like actually going and picking them out would mean more than bragging rights to other cunts.