Fifey
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Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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Big Phoenix
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Like 20 people gave you therightadvice and you chose the wrong one. Iannis provided you that option before full details came to light. You need to cut all ties yesterday, dragging this out will not be good for either of you.
Noodleface
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Agreed, especially now that you're "one of here anxieties" - I don't even know what that means.
Stop thinking with your dick on this one, as hard as it may be.
Heh heh.
Feien
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It's been less than 2 weeks man. Even if it had been the wrong move, which I don't necessarily think it was but can't say for sure, it hasn't been long enough for this to become a bad anxiety or a mistake, even if you guys spent all of those hours together, it's only been a few days.
Soygen
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Dude, the early parts of talking to someone is supposed to be when you're presenting your "best self"(both you and her). Think about that.
Gavinmad
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I would have married this chick. You're missing out dude.
Actually maybe a marriage proposal would have been the way to break up with her. If she's gonna turn the crazy up to 11, turn the crazy up to 12 in response and make her run shrieking for the hills.
You've known this chick for a week. Her own special brand of crazy is not your problem. You didn't go out of your way to be a dick if she's a pyscho thats her issue not yours.
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moonarchia
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Kriptini, you knew things were fucked up. That's why you came here. That kind of crazy needs to be released into the wilds and run the fuck away from.
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Namon
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That added anxiety stuff is signs to me that this girl is beyond just high maintenance , and you really have to ask yourself why would you willingly take up that mantle? My personal feeling is usage of that term is just complete crap in this case, but even if it is genuine anxiety, again, do you really want to elect to jump into that? Moving in with each other before you even know each other (on a romantic basis) is a disaster in the making of epic proportions.
Noodleface
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Haast
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Agreed.
Almost positive Kriptini is college age or close, and he said she is in town for college. So yeah, probably.
Noodleface
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Man Kriptinis gonna be her trigger the rest of her life, she'll be the girl that cries when someone has sex with her
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Kriptini
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Last night she did the whole "I never want to see you again, you broke my heart, I'm going to find someone to replace you." She called me again this morning begging for me to reconsider, talking about how this has happened 4-5 times, how she stood up a guy at Disneyland so she could spend more time with me on our first date. My plan had been not to cut all ties with her because it didn't seem like she had many close friends which IMO isn't healthy, and she basically confirmed that. She said that she doesn't make friends because she doesn't like opening up, she just has acquaintances and whoever she falls in love with after 8 days. After like an hour on the phone I was tired of subjecting myself to all this drama so I finally acquiesced to her wanting to cut off all ties with me (we'll see how long that lasts) and now I just hope she doesn't hurt herself.
Very fair point, and something I was thinking about.
My sister was listening in on some of the stuff I was saying and she told me that she thought I handled it alright... whatever that's worth.
Yep lol.
I'll spare you and tell you she isn't.
Please not another one.
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