Glad to hear it! Also glad to hear the union (or at the very least the union rep) got on board. Now enjoy all the other stresses that come with being a new parent!Ok no more ranting and raving. The union rep went to bat for my wife today and unofficial word is that she has her 15 days and they will officially meet again on Monday. HUUUUUUUUUGE load off our shoulders. phew.
They acknowledged they fucked up and didn't meet with all committee members so the meeting Monday will count as the first meeting and not the 3rd which is what it really is. And because of this they were able to clarify the policy so that this does not happen to anyone else going forward. Win win for everyone.
IVF?4 seperate sacs and heartbeats all in the 160 range. Once we are further along we will do what screening for defects/abnormalities we can and then discuss whether we should do a reduction. I'm not against abortion morally (and this isn't even classified as that), but if there is nothing wrong with any of them I don't know how we could just choose one and stop its heart. There's nothing to really be done at this point, so I'm trying not to freak the fuck out and it's not really working. Just realized I've been sitting at my desk at work for over an hour and haven't done anything
who knows at this point, maybe next week they will see 5
Nope, but it wasn't natural either. Tried for a couple of years without success, wife did one round of clomid (plus metformin but she has been taking that for awhile now) and bamIVF?
That's the plan unless we find something wrong with one of them in a screening. Then it depends on what it is.Don't reduce. You can do it.
Agreed. Sack up and be the amazing father Rerolled knows you can be!Don't reduce. You can do it.
It's cool. We just lost our single fetus in week 13. High five, random internet bro.We haven't told anyone yet that we are even expecting at all but my wife's sister, so I'm trying to get it all out to random bros on the internet
That sucks man, sorryIt's cool. We just lost our single fetus in week 13. High five, random internet bro.
I try to stay positive, thanks man. Quadruplets, huh? That's amazing. CongratulationsThat sucks man, sorry
Yeah, last week at the ultrasound they saw three. I just got to the point where I wasn't shitting myself and then today the nurse found 4. I'm just really worried now, 3 nearly guaranteed a complicate pregnancy and 4 only makes it worse.I try to stay positive, thanks man. Quadruplets, huh? That's amazing. Congratulations