So my daughter's "intervention team" meeting was yesterday. There were 7 people present at that meeting, including both the principal and vice principal of the school. They gave a pretty detailed writeup of stuff they are concerned about and they were really glad we are being so proactive with trying stuff. They are trying a new system where they reward her with some specific activities that she likes. She doesn't generally respond to reward systems so I don't have much hope. After the meeting she had some kind of behavior outburst so bad that they had to clear the other kids out of the classroom and they called the school's social worker into the class to calm her down. Apparently she was fine after that incident. idk. She's also gone back to having accidents at school.
Today was her psychologist appt. She got through all of the tests and the psychologist remarked how she didn't witness any of the defiant behavior/refusal/etc shit that her teachers have. I'm thinking oh great, she's acting for the psychologist. But we have to go back next Friday for more tests and give them completed surveys from us and her teachers then they can score it and make their determination. I think we may have bought her some time with the school, but if she doesn't get an IEP soon I think they will kick her out.