They have services like this. They cost stupid amounts of money. Like this one:It Dating Service
I'd say the money is to save your time and get higher quality matches from the start, but ok...
Yea but how is it saving you time if they are vetting you the same way they vet your matches for you? They are going to do the same thing the cheap/free dating sites do. Ask a bunch of canned questions and then try to use a "scientific matchmaking formula!" to figure out who is the "best match". It may seem better at first glance but once you really start thinking about it, it sounds like the same house with a different coat of paint
Well, if they do what I said in my original question, thats not just asking a bunch of canned questions then using a scientific matchmaking formula.
The problem is how can they legitimately do what you said (and they claim)? How can you get to know someone enough to be able to match them appropriately without spending the amount of time friends spend together? In order to do that you can't really save anyone time, which is what they claim to do and it would probably cost even more than it currently does.
Well, if your position is just going to be that "no dating service will actually do what you say" then, ok, I guess it doesn't matter what I say.
I wouldn't pay for a service that really did exactly what you were asking about because I wouldn't be able to afford it.
Well, reading this thread it's pretty obvious that what shits up online dating is that people are dishonest. They're dishonest about their pictures, dishonest about their preferences, and dishonest about their lives. Having some neutral verificiation of who/what the person is prior to meeting so that it removes that dishonesty seems to have some real value.
Problem is the only dishonesty they can remove in a reasonable time frame is the physical attribute dishonesty, which is easy enough to do yourself by just asking for a new pic when you start texting.
