The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread
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She good looking man, as far as whiskey dick goes, I have the opposite version. When I'm smashed I stay hard and can't come no matter what. I've fucked for hours and hours and made my dick and a girls pussy raw before giving up and it just doesn't work if I'm really hammered. I'm sure others have had this version of it too right?
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So, I need an honest opinion here.. It's been about six years since I moved to the US and during that time it has felt like at least 80% of the girls I've dated are batshit crazy. So either I'm the one that's crazy, I attract and/or am attracted to crazies, or most chicks in the US are crazy. I seriously don't remember the girls being this bad in Canada, but then again I was younger, not interested in anything serious, and smoked a lot weed which somewhat insulates one from crazy.
Anyways, here's the pattern.. Date a few months and all is well.. Then they start picking fights over stupid shit, and I mean REALLY stupid shit. Like a few days ago the GF goes into a rampage because I mention going back to a restaurant we had gone to a few months ago. She insists we've never been there. I say she's wrong, we have, and even remind her what she ordered. She looks up the restaurant on her phone and says she doesn't recognize it and "I must be confusing her with some other girl I took". I sigh and tell her I'll take her there tomorrow and prove it to her, mentioning the dessert we had. She suddenly remembers saying "Oh yeah, that's the place you made me feel fat asshole" and then escalates the fight to shouting levels saying I was "pompously" trying to prove her wrong by saying I would taker her back AND continues to harp on how shitty I made her feel that night at the restaurant THREE MONTHS AGO. Any mention of "why the fuck are we arguing about something that is ancient history" is just like adding fuel to the fire.
I could cite many more examples, but they all follow the same pattern:
1) Chick starts argument over something fucking stupid
2) Chick escalates argument. Attempts to defuse argument usually result in a greater conflagration.
3) I'm finally pushed to the point of frustrated rage, at which point I either dump her or she breaks down crying and wants to make up.
4) Chick does a Jekyll and Hyde. One minute she's wishing me dead, and 30 minutes later we've made up and she wants to have sex.
What I REALLY don't get, and seems absolutely crazy to me, is how they can do a total 180 over the course of MINUTES. One second she wants to scratch your eyeballs out, is calling you an asshole, and is threatening to leave, and the next she's telling you she loves you and wants to have dirty sex. I just don't get it, if I'm pissed the last thing I want to do is fuck and cuddle, and an "I'm sorry" doesn't change that in a mater of minutes.
So.. Is this behavior pretty much par for the course? It seems like these chicks just love to fight so they can make up, like it's some sort of drug for them.. To me it's frustrating and totally exhausting...
Anyways, here's the pattern.. Date a few months and all is well.. Then they start picking fights over stupid shit, and I mean REALLY stupid shit. Like a few days ago the GF goes into a rampage because I mention going back to a restaurant we had gone to a few months ago. She insists we've never been there. I say she's wrong, we have, and even remind her what she ordered. She looks up the restaurant on her phone and says she doesn't recognize it and "I must be confusing her with some other girl I took". I sigh and tell her I'll take her there tomorrow and prove it to her, mentioning the dessert we had. She suddenly remembers saying "Oh yeah, that's the place you made me feel fat asshole" and then escalates the fight to shouting levels saying I was "pompously" trying to prove her wrong by saying I would taker her back AND continues to harp on how shitty I made her feel that night at the restaurant THREE MONTHS AGO. Any mention of "why the fuck are we arguing about something that is ancient history" is just like adding fuel to the fire.
I could cite many more examples, but they all follow the same pattern:
1) Chick starts argument over something fucking stupid
2) Chick escalates argument. Attempts to defuse argument usually result in a greater conflagration.
3) I'm finally pushed to the point of frustrated rage, at which point I either dump her or she breaks down crying and wants to make up.
4) Chick does a Jekyll and Hyde. One minute she's wishing me dead, and 30 minutes later we've made up and she wants to have sex.
What I REALLY don't get, and seems absolutely crazy to me, is how they can do a total 180 over the course of MINUTES. One second she wants to scratch your eyeballs out, is calling you an asshole, and is threatening to leave, and the next she's telling you she loves you and wants to have dirty sex. I just don't get it, if I'm pissed the last thing I want to do is fuck and cuddle, and an "I'm sorry" doesn't change that in a mater of minutes.
So.. Is this behavior pretty much par for the course? It seems like these chicks just love to fight so they can make up, like it's some sort of drug for them.. To me it's frustrating and totally exhausting...
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Having dated women in the USA and abroad, I can say that all women are crazy, it's just a matter ofhowcrazy they get. Your post reminds me of my crazy, Russian ex-girlfriend who was so crazy I ended up fleeing a country to escape her. Sadly those posts were on FoH and are gone now.
Anyway, you escalated the argument about the restaurant by telling her she was wrong, and then insisting that you would prove her wrong. At most, you tell her she's wrong once and if she continues to insist she's right you just smile and nod. Logic is wasted on most women.
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Yeah I guess that is technically escalation, though when I said she escalates things I'm talking along the lines of shouting or personal attacks. You're right, I could have ended it all right at the start by just shutting up and acknowledging that that she was right even though she was wrong, but I really didn't think proving her wrong was going to cause things to go nuclear.
On another note, at a certain point even when right I give in because it just isn't worth it anymore. I have never seen a woman "tap out". They fight to the death, always.
On another note, at a certain point even when right I give in because it just isn't worth it anymore. I have never seen a woman "tap out". They fight to the death, always.
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Frenzied Wombat
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She already bought herself a set of double handfuls. Them funbags almost make the insanity worth it.. Ok, well maybe not.
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Seananigans
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Wombat: They're bored (with you), so they start a fight for some excitement. It's a very common thing women do. Look into some attraction literature, it's possible that you're falling into the trap of getting complacent and not "trying" after a bit or whatever.
I never understood guys who put up with unstable women who act like that. I don't know the answer because I've never dealt with it, but I imagine it's something like (1)staying calm and (2)absolutely never putting up with it (ie tell them why you're leaving and just go home). When people have tried to pass some ridiculous accusations at me or are being unreasonable, I always say that we both know they are being unreasonable and that I feel insulted they would think they can pull that shit with me.
If you engage emotionally you automatically lose. And if you repeatedly date women like that, you should look at why you are attracting that kind of woman.
If you engage emotionally you automatically lose. And if you repeatedly date women like that, you should look at why you are attracting that kind of woman.
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Settled down quite a bit though they still have a little ways to go. Scarring is actually minimal and they give new definition to the word "funbags". I'll be updating the original thread sometime soon, but overall it's a "thumbs up" result, especially since I didn't pay for them.
Yeah, this kind of makes sense because there were absolutely ZERO signs of this behavior early on, but she isn't the first one I've dated that started to go nutso a few months in.. She frequently complains that I'm not as romantic as I used to be, don't want to go out as much, etc.. Obviously the intensity is highest in the first few months, but eventually thing settle down somewhat.. It's reality imho, who the fuck can keep that shit up indefinitely? It just seems like women want this Cinderella romance and intense lovey feeling 24/7.seananigans_sl said:
I guess it makes sense from a nutty women standpoint, but the thought of picking fights to get attention is the dumbest most illogical thing I've ever heard.
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Well, that's why I suggested looking into some attraction literature. IMO the number one downfall of relationships is a lack of understanding of what's actually going on between men and women on a fundamental level. There will always be an ebb and flow, but there is a requirement for both parties to maintain attraction, and most people don't actually understand where it comes from.
Frenzied Wombat
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Sorry, you either haven't dated much, live in female Nirvana, or have an amazing ability to vet a woman's behavior-- both present and future. To somehow have gotten this far in life without ever dating an irrational overly-emotional chick is honestly an accomplishment. I'm not in all honesty doubting you, because if you had dated one of these chicks, you would know that using calm logic like "you are being unreasonable" is like throwing kerosene on the fire.
And in actuality, engaging them emotionally works better than engaging them logically. Logic really seems to piss them off and these fights historically come to an end when they finally push me to the brink and I rage, at which point they cry and say they're sorry and want to make up.
I won't dispute that I potentially attract crazies though, but I do think that statistically there are more crazy chicks out there than sane.