Gilgamel
A Man Chooses....
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Hahaha. I get it, I really do. I could write 4000 words explaining to you why I am beyond this, but I'll refrain. Let's just say I've seen rock bottom, I know what actual hopelessness is, and I got through it. Maintaining a healthy calorie intake for the rest of my life would rank about 143rd on the list of difficult shit I've had to do in the last three years. The changes I had to make internally to stop being the person who hovered around 500 lbs have already happened. This last however many pounds is the only thing connecting me to that person and the psychological bullshit that held that person back. Professionally and personally it was much easier to make drastic change right away, which I have done. This can't work on that constricted timeline unfortunately. Mentally the weight is already gone, it's just a matter of time lapsing in the interim before reality catches up to that fact.I don't want to be discouraging or anything because I'm really happy for you that you're taking initiative and doing something. But real talk, you didn't get where you are overnight, you got there from poor lifestyle choices. No judgement, I have done the same thing. But I think you're fooling yourself if you think a few months of discipline outweighs years, decades even, of poor choices. It's better to be aware of the failure rate and why that happens. The data says that your way has a higher failrue rate, and that doesn't mean you will fail, and I 100% understand the "fuck this shit, no more" attitude. I have it myself in a way.
Don't look at it as saving you time. If you were to lose this weight, get surgery, and then gain it back within 5 years, did you save any time? How demoralizing would that be? These are things worth pondering. Ultimately yeah, you get the one life, and imo we should be looking at this more as "how do I live the rest of my life to where this never happens again" rather than "how do I get from X to Y the quickest."
But yes, I will take the diet suggestions to heart. There is always room for improvement. I happen to think those Voila meals from birdseye are pretty healthy and they are super convenient(they are just frozen veggies and meat for the most part), but I honestly think Keto may speed things up so I may go 100% and see how that goes.