agreed, I thought I held some sort of record when I was his age, he has got me beat (no pun)are you blocking porn? nothing will stop a teen that has to fap
agreed, I thought I held some sort of record when I was his age, he has got me beat (no pun)
It started during covid and that stupid online school, it really fucked him/us. He would minimize his online class and play games for the most part. Started with timed access, switched it up to opendns to filter content, QoS and parental controls, using a Fingbox, now the gloves have come off and went for a full upgrade to the home network with a shitload of unifi gear.
Years ago my Brother in Law noticed his oldest son looking up 'Asians with huge knockers', and went down the path you did blocking everything. The kid turned gay (NTTIAWWT!) and doesn't want to have kids. So be careful what you block if you want grandkids
I have wide open internet, but all the computers are in one room like a mini office. The youngest ones don't have anything they can take to their rooms.
I didn't let my kids have computers in their room or devices in their room after bedtime until high school.That's a great option if you can swing it, the precedent has been set for personal pc/devices in their rooms unfortunately.
Kick him out and make him fend for himself.I have 3 kids, my older 2 (daughters) are in their twenties, they have their crap together for the most part. I have cut my son off all internet access until he starts playing ball with us, but he is stubborn and is not co-operating in the least. I think he is sustaining himself with offline games and movies.
So she’s enabling his failures (not to be a dick about it)?Yup, that's want I want to do, my wife says she will go with him if I do. Therein lies part of the problem.
What is he some kind of sexual deviant? Kid is 19 years old if you got to do this kinda shit to him you lost the battle long ago.Yet my 19yr old son seems to find ways around my blocks on internet access, and I work in IT.
You can only be as tough as the least tough parent. You and your wife need to come to an understanding. Does she undermine you in front of them or does she at least provide a united front?Yup
We are united on most things, but the kids. She over-mothers them, needless to say this doesn't sit well with me. I plan on retiring in a few years, I have said if they aren't out of the house by then, I am.
On an unrelated topic, I messed up my back bending over to pick something up. I have never felt my age more these last couple of weeks.
Have you tried just taking the power cord out of his PC? That’s what my parents would do in the 90s lol “oh I dunno dude you must have lost it!”I have 3 kids, my older 2 (daughters) are in their twenties, they have their crap together for the most part. I have cut my son off all internet access until he starts playing ball with us, but he is stubborn and is not co-operating in the least. I think he is sustaining himself with offline games and movies.
My son likes to divide and conquer, he knows his mother is the weak link and tries to exploit that every chance he gets, but his lies and empty promises have caught up with him. So she is in my camp now.You can only be as tough as the least tough parent. You and your wife need to come to an understanding. Does she undermine you in front of them or does she at least provide a united front?
I have (flipped the breaker to his room) it's highly effective but comes with more drama than its worth (for now).Have you tried just taking the power cord out of his PC? That’s what my parents would do in the 90s lol “oh I dunno dude you must have lost it!”
I have 3 kids, my older 2 (daughters) are in their twenties, they have their crap together for the most part. I have cut my son off all internet access until he starts playing ball with us, but he is stubborn and is not co-operating in the least. I think he is sustaining himself with offline games and movies.
Military schoolI have (flipped the breaker to his room) it's highly effective but comes with more drama than its worth (for now).
This happened to me, and it really worked in my favor. I went from being a lazy degenerate to a frugal and financially smart degenerate that bought my own house at 22.Kick him out and make him fend for himself.