So the video that was posted back a page or so about the streamer who came back, got me to restart this game again. As people said before, if you don't try to be the 1%, you will be fine. You can grind silver and pretty much buy yourself into relevancy instead of breaking your fucking keyboard with the retarded and unforgiving up RNG enhancement system. Personally I don't care to PVP at all and PVE combat is fun as hell (better than most single player action/rpg games) and the world is just so expansive and gorgeous.
If you are like me and play this game to PVE, I treat it as a sandbox and I typically hate sandbox/make your own adventure games, but this is different for some reason, probably because there is SO much to do and grinding silver both actively and AFK you always feel like you are making progress. Since there is no monthly fee and IMO this is definitely NOT a P2W game, I personally feel you will easily get the $50 or whatever the box price is as the first time through, I can almost guarantee you will drop 80-100 hours at the minimum without even noticing it and that is far better than 99% of the shit out there.