Thanks for the advice. But I wasn"t really referring to slumming or being mopey as to why I wouldn"t be confident. I was more in the sense that I feel my relationship failed because I wasn"t able to put myself into it enough since I wasn"t really doing anything with my life. And while i"ve improved somewhat, i"m still not sure I myself am at the point where I feel I can bring that much to a relationship. I mean, I"ve gotten my high school diplomia about a year ago, trying to work on figuring out maybe some sort of community college but money is an issue since I don"t have a job atm. That"s more what I meant in being confident, more in myself being able to contribute fully to a relationship not being in total sync with myself, than being whatever over my ex.