Well, I have hung out with the red head 3 times now and tonight she wants me to go hang out with her and her friends. She pays for herself most of the time, so she is not costing me anything to have some fun. I dont really think anything "romantic" is going to happen. She cute as heck and I would fuck her, but there is no strong sexual attraction... and it sucks because I absolutely love her personality.
She is pretty much a female version of myself when it comes to being blunt, honest and staying away from the game bullshit. The only thing I dont like that she does is she knows I hang out with strippers (Hang out with my siter and her "friends" tag along.). She asks me a lot of "relationship" type questions even though she SAYS she does not want one.
I dont even know if I could turn this into a fuck buddy situation because she claims to already have one and is happy with the arrangement (I dont push the issue. Not a big deal).
Bottom line, she is a lot of fun and I would be stupid not to want to hang out with her. Really and truly, she was exactly what I wished for when i was 16-19 (before I met my ex.) a few inches shorter, but looks and personality, she is almost an exact fit. It makes me wonder why I dont feel some kind of super attraction.