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If you want to actually go to the event, just go regardless of the fact that she"s basically cut off contact. You have to go there and have a good time regardless of the fact that she"s there. Don"t ignore her or anything, but definitely make sure she knows that her being there is more of a "coincidence" than anything.Chris said:Thanks for replies. Yeah the thing starts next week, it"s a german christmas market we have every year and runs for quite a few weeks.
I just moved back to home town/city after 3 years away so could do with more friends, I just need a reality check from normal people to back up the logical bit of my brain stop me obsessing about it and thinking there is more going on than actually is. I managed to do this for myself for 6 weeks but looks like I need to work more on this.
If you don"t go, forget her. As a guy who has suffered from it quite often, don"t let yourself fall into the trap of "one-itis". Don"t let one girl become your focus. Move on. Meet other chicks, go to other events, etc. Nothing will make you forget a girl faster than a new girl.