So she's supposed to instantly be a great leader becauseshe got Drogo to let her be on top while they fucked? She made him fall in love with her (and fell in love with him at the same time) and maybe influenced some of his decisions but that doesn't mean she knows how to rule over people or lead an army. Hell Joffrey sucks balls at it and he grew up in King's landing. She had never even been around politics or warfare until she married Drogo.
Where do you get this "instantly greater leader"? This woman formed a
partnershipout of a gift (Which she was, just a gift), birthed dragons, survived a test of fire, was the first woman ever to inspire her own blood riders, lead her people through the desert and found them sanctuary, killed powerful Warlocks on their own ground, laid siege to and defeated some of the most powerful cities in the world--while controlling
her own army, all while cultivating a loyal inner circle of men, whom she impressed to the point where most would be willing to die for her.
But yeah, we expect her to be a great leader because she sat on Drogo's cock (I mentioned Drogo above in relation to her actions around Daario). No...We expect her to be able to lead because she's been a great leader since she saved her people from the red waste. We expect her to be strong be she has been strong since she sat there and watched her brother's head get melted off--we expect her to be the Queen of Fire and Blood because she has been since she walked out of the fucking fire with Dragons clawing to her.
That's why we expect these things. And she did them all with NOTHING but her whits and determination--and yet now, as she sits in Meeren, with more power than she has ever had, she is all of the sudden indecisive, political impotent, naive and meek? Yeah,
thatmakes sense. Overall her character diminished a great deal, and all of her problems have stemmed from this artificial, obtuse weakness--it's not even incompetence, it's just an inability to accept that "fire and blood" is literally her ruling motto.
But there was no
instantexpectation--we spent three books having our expectations built up. Don't give me this bullshit like she is a babe in the woods and it's unreasonable that we expect the character who: Burned someone alive, survived the death of her son and husband, coldly watched her only surviving brother (The man who begged and kept her alive for years) get his head melted off while pleading with her and her only response was disowning his weakness with "he wasn't a dragon", sacked multiple cities, burned warlocks alive, and many more things, to have some balls is unreasonable--it's not. It's not unreasonable at all.