Understand the process enough to know who fucked up and dont make the process worse on yourself by attacking people that did nothing wrong. You know, the basic rules of human interaction.
I dont know what you should do in any one particular situation. I do know that if you are mad at your loan officer, taking it out on an unrelated party will only cause more delays for you at worst or do nothing for you at best.
So much butt hurt. Do you like treating people, who did nothing wrong, like shit? Does it make your tiny dick feel big? Its ok, we all need a way to compliment ourselves.
What you are missing is that the company he showed up to was not responsible for whatever the issues were. And at the point of the process when the escrow company got involved, the process is mostly over, the docs were sent and just had to be reviewed. But the review does not happen instantly, it takes time. Showing up there just adds more possible delays to things as people who are trying to do their job are forced to deal with some random dude that just showed up at their door step. I get that he was frustrated but the escrow company didnt cause the issues, expecting them to drop everything that second and do his case is ridiculous.
What you seem to be missing is that they are a business, with an office, where people can show up to ask questions. Which is completely normal. If they don't want to answer their phone or have people walk into their place of business they shouldn't have an office or a phone number. In fact, they probably shouldn't even be in business. It's like you grew up on some distant planet where people don't ask questions or seek answers and it's rude to question authority... like Japan or something. And you believe he just showed up ranting and raving when in reality he probably just showed up and asked some questions in a completely normal manner.
I had a title and escrow company, maybe that's not common or illegal in other states? Dunno. Once lender prepared paperwork approving the loan and prepped disbursement, I received information from the title & escrow company for payment. I had my bank wire the money.
I think California is strange. We had a title and escrow company as well, and we signed all our loan paperwork with them. I've never even met my lender, but I've had to go to the escrow company a few times. Maybe this is why wormie is getting all spun up; in whatever state he lives in, going there isn't customary. But even discounting my drop in that he's upset about, I've had to go there 3 different times for legitimate reasons (4 if you count my wife dropping off a cashier's check). Hell, one of my coworkers just bought a house and is using the same escrow company, and when we were signing everything I saw her husband there. He must be some giant asshole to show up their offices too.
