Something is fishy, but doesn't have to be the pussy. Mebbe a_skeleton_03 is the one lying while he spanks the monkey to the thought of a marathon fuck fest?
And you don't find that strange? She even dreams about it and still doesn't ever do it?
Rolf. You not being able to think of a reason is not the same thing. This white lie pleases your ego in several conscious and subconscious ways. Makes you feel secure and in charge. Women know this and utilize it. It's like poker. If you can't spot the whale, you ARE the whale.
Which version is more plausible? Confirmation bias. "My presence is enough for her". "I'm an alpha". "She has never had anyone like me" etc. It's all hysterical to me.
As for masturbation, it's more than sticking things inside oneself. Maybe your wife has PCOS and doesn't want to batton herself, who knows. There could be any nummer of explanations. It's how you, and others, arrive at the "I'm always there if she's horny" or some other selfserving explanation that's a study in cognitive dissonance, subconscioulsly or not. You're right, I don't know you or your wife. Nor the other way around. I'd like to think my bs radar would go off if my wife said something similar. Because here, in what may be considered the worlds 2nd most secular country in the world it's generally considered natural / mentally healthy to masturbate, orgasm. Not doing it is not a positive as such. I'm sure she on a conscious or subconscious level knows this, and thus do no not perpetuate this virgin / chaste / innocence image or whatever you'd call it. I'm also conscious and very aware that we're not blind, deaf or without olfactorial inputs - there are sensory inputs, some we interpret favorably and they make neuronal changes. On a macro scale we learn to cater to one another during a long term relationship. Or not. I completely agree with you there.
