Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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QUESTIONS:

1. When calculating child support, is it based off the money I generate in a month, or a full time employments worth of hours? To clarify, I work 280+ hours a month, and am paid hourly.

2. Does child support include private school, etc. For example, if I owed $3000/month, and wife wants child to goto private school at 1000/month, how does that work?
 
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In terms of what you’ll pay the state will go off your hourly wages if you work full-time so calculated as a 40 hour work week. Overtime, commissions and things of that nature are not considered guaranteed income so they don’t usually get factored into what you’re paying for child support. Also what she makes factors in as well, each state usually online child support calculator where it will calculate your income and your exes and then figure out on average what you will be paying in child support. Usually it’s pretty accurate unless they’re outside factors such as stipulations in your divorce and custody agreement that would influence that child support payment.

As far as private school goes unless otherwise stipulated in the agreement, that child support goes to paying everything in terms of supporting that child. In my first divorce I was not obligated to help pay for daycare costs because it wasn’t stipulated and the court told my ex that she had to use my child support payments to pay for that. However, when my second marriage ended it was stipulated that I had to pay for half of summer child support on top of my normal child support payment. At the end of the day what its going to come down to is the agreement that you guys have on paper.
 
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Falxy-US said:
QUESTIONS:

1. When calculating child support, is it based off the money I generate in a month, or a full time employments worth of hours? To clarify, I work 280+ hours a month, and am paid hourly.

2. Does child support include private school, etc. For example, if I owed $3000/month, and wife wants child to goto private school at 1000/month, how does that work?
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What state are you in?
 
Aychamo BanBan

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Tarrant said:
In terms of what you’ll pay the state will go off your hourly wages if you work full-time so calculated as a 40 hour work week. Overtime, commissions and things of that nature are not considered guaranteed income so they don’t usually get factored into what you’re paying for child support. Also what she makes factors in as well, each state usually online child support calculator where it will calculate your income and your exes and then figure out on average what you will be paying in child support. Usually it’s pretty accurate unless they’re outside factors such as stipulations in your divorce and custody agreement that would influence that child support payment.

As far as private school goes unless otherwise stipulated in the agreement, that child support goes to paying everything in terms of supporting that child. In my first divorce I was not obligated to help pay for daycare costs because it wasn’t stipulated and the court told my ex that she had to use my child support payments to pay for that. However, when my second marriage ended it was stipulated that I had to pay for half of summer child support on top of my normal child support payment. At the end of the day what its going to come down to is the agreement that you guys have on paper.
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So what if I choose to work 2 full time jobs? Do I owe child support on that, or just the 144-160 hours per month that counts as full time?
 
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Falxy-US said:
So what if I choose to work 2 full time jobs? Do I owe child support on that, or just the 144-160 hours per month that counts as full time?
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The norm is they would factor in your rate of pay from your highest paying job. An exception could be made though if you've worked both jobs for 10 years and its a standard income for you then there's a chance it can be included. However, it's still fairly rare.

At the end of the day, consult your lawyer. If you don't have one, stop wasting time by posting here and go get one. That should always be your first move.
 
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Curious, how do you support your third (?) family and not fatigue out with work while suporting 2 prior marriages/child suport, Tarrant?
 
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Izo said:
Curious, how do you support your third (?) family and not fatigue out with work while suporting 2 prior marriages/child suport, Tarrant?
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When I went through my 2nd divorce they factored in my other child obligation costs into the support.It didn't impact it much, but they still do that for you at least. I only had to pay for a short time until I got custody of him.
 
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So each divorce gets cheaper, eh?

You'd be a fool not to keep going with all the money you're saving!
 
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Do you boys find taller women have larger pussies? Usually prefer my puss small, petite looking. Was a pussy too big a deal breaker for you?
 
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Not really. It's like dicks.

Height is an indication but it's not an assurance. I've dated small girls with big pussies, and tall girls with snug ones.
 
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iannis said:
Not really. It's like dicks.

Height is an indication but it's not an assurance. I've dated small girls with big pussies, and tall girls with snug ones.
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Would a big pussy be a deal breaker for you? I like my pussy to just look like a nice Lil slit
 
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Not really. A super stinky one probably would be. But that's basic "wash yo ass" territory.

There's other stuff you can do. From an aesthetic pov I've always found the front profile to be more pleasant than the back profile, and she's have to have a giant pussy indeed to break the lines of that triangle.

If you've got one with a cow pussy, just don't look straight down when you bend her over.
 
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The only thing I find annoying about them to any extent is when some women have one that for lack of a better way to describe it, is too short in length and you bottom out. I do not have some porn star size dick (like six something inches) but I’ve dated women who couldn’t be pounded in doggy because it hurt them and that’s super lame for me as it’s my favorite position especially to finish in. I want to be able to hit that shit at any angle and not feel things bottom out or be pushed back or told it hurts. As for the way they look; who gives a shit, that’s middle school stuff.
 
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Jackie Treehorn said:
The only thing I find annoying about them to any extent is when some women have one that for lack of a better way to describe it, is too short in length and you bottom out. I do not have some porn star size dick (like six something inches) but I’ve dated women who couldn’t be pounded in doggy because it hurt them and that’s super lame for me as it’s my favorite position especially to finish in. I want to be able to hit that shit at any angle and not feel things bottom out or be pushed back or told it hurts. As for the way they look; who gives a shit, that’s middle school stuff.
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So no pound for pound ranking necessary as long as the tunnel never ends?
 
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Foler said:
Would a big pussy be a deal breaker for you? I like my pussy to just look like a nice Lil slit
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The only ones that I despise are when the lips have that "hamburger buns" look to them. Call me ole' fashioned but I think I prefer more of a tiny "flaps" situation.
 
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I've never cared. I mean, yeah we all like the nice, tidy pretty ones that I describe as "innies" over the meat flap "outties" but at the end of the day, that's something (unless the chick is stretching her shit for some reason) that a person can't control so I'm not about to hold it against them. As long as the smell/taste is good then game on.
 
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My long time girlfriend of over 20 years and now my ex girlfriend suggest that we should get married. Not sure where that came from. Kind of spooked. No really spooked. She kind of shrugged off when I mentioned she makes enough for both of us to live on.
 
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Cause he's got some serious health problems.

She wants to take care of you, sounds like. Not sure I'd turn her away.

You can fix it but you'll have to be honest about why it spooked you.

She has much more authority to guard you as a wife than a girlfriend, as long as her and your mother are agreeable with one another. IN the coming years you'll be glad of that help. 20 years ain't nothing.

Just think on that one, is all.
 
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