TheBeagle
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Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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lindz
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lindz
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It's just a topic that gets me really frustrated and my husband and I talk about quite a bit. Sex was never talked about it my family and he was raised religious so it was not only never talked about, it was seen as wrong outside marriage (and don't get me started on the archaic views regarding masturbation). Everyone I associate with doesn't talk about it and it annoys the hell out of me. I came to realize a few years back that I didn't give a shit anymore about sexual conventions. I was going to explore whatever the fuck I wanted and no one would tell me different. I am so much happier in myself and in my relationship because of it and I want so badly to share that with people I care about but there is this block up when it comes to sex.
BrotherWu
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Why stop there? We could distribute sexpotwife clones with RR membership. 5 reasonable, mature posts gets you access to the Grown Up forum and a free clone.
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Well, the family part makes sense. Hasn't it been proven that you will not find people in your immediate family attractive, even if they match what you typically find attractive? Why would someone want to talk sex with those kinds of ingrained psychological blocks naturally in place?
Outside of that, I assume you mean your friends? What kind of stuff do you want to talk about with your friends? My friend has not problem whatsoever discussing the multitude of chicks he's banged since we last met. I know my wife discusses it with her coworkers outside of work.
Nester
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Noodle, why not just say no to unreasonable requests? Normal requests sure smile and hop at it, once it passes YOUR threshold, grab your balls and let her know that based on previous requests you are at your limit, if she still wants that chair now, she can go pick it up. Don't hide your feels, be honest, if it's to much it's too much, don't let it build up to the point you harm innocent soda's. It's very easy once you start and will reduce the amount of requests. Good luck, learn the value of NO for your own sanity.
Noodleface
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I wish my wife was like you lindz. I mean she has the same name, roughly the same age, way smaller boobs though, we just bought a house. Unfortunately, breaking her out of her sexual safe zone is not only extremely difficult, it is extremely tiresome. I've gotten her to give in a little bit and live a little, but there's only so much effort I can put forth. For instance, for the longest time she wouldn't do doggy style. I was perplexed. Come to find out she thought it was anal. Even after I explained it she still was on the fence.. one day we tried it and it was like Moses parted the sea and my dick was going in everyday.
Just a small example. She's also less adventurous since we got married. I quite enjoyed the highway handy on many a night ride home. Now I never get them
Just a small example. She's also less adventurous since we got married. I quite enjoyed the highway handy on many a night ride home. Now I never get them
Oldbased
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The lady I live with the past 18 years stopped having sex about 8 years ago completely. I however still want sex and it is a constant tension in my home. I am 42 she is 52 and she has some medical problems, mostly with her spine.
The dilemma I always face is and especially the past 4 years , she has no family , very few friends, no job, no income and not a penny to her name.
She wasn't always like that but after she got very ill in 2007 she hasn't worked much at all.
She does however cook dinner every night, wash my clothes, keep the house clean, and we rarely if ever fight. She constantly tells me if I want sex to just go find someone and sleep with them. We are not legally married.
My side is , I am still very sexually interested in women, I pay all the bills and I feel like it'd be damn near impossible to find any woman as long as she is in the house. I also know how hard it is to find someone who does all the things she does outside of no sex and not be totally batshit crazy.
The dilemma I always face is and especially the past 4 years , she has no family , very few friends, no job, no income and not a penny to her name.
She wasn't always like that but after she got very ill in 2007 she hasn't worked much at all.
She does however cook dinner every night, wash my clothes, keep the house clean, and we rarely if ever fight. She constantly tells me if I want sex to just go find someone and sleep with them. We are not legally married.
My side is , I am still very sexually interested in women, I pay all the bills and I feel like it'd be damn near impossible to find any woman as long as she is in the house. I also know how hard it is to find someone who does all the things she does outside of no sex and not be totally batshit crazy.
Noodleface
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At 30 it's pretty non-dangerous, I don't jump if my wife reaches for my dick.
When I was 17 I had a girl do it right after I got my license and I seriously almost caused a major wreck on the highway..
Downside was I didn't read the signs and thought she was just trying to put her hand on my leg. Yep.. definitely wasn't. Definitely did not go any further than a 1 second touch on my dick.
When I was 17 I had a girl do it right after I got my license and I seriously almost caused a major wreck on the highway..
Downside was I didn't read the signs and thought she was just trying to put her hand on my leg. Yep.. definitely wasn't. Definitely did not go any further than a 1 second touch on my dick.
Noodleface
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I get heightened driving senses when it's going on. It's weird.Yeah, it's the reaction when she grabs your crotch that's the dangerous part.
Bros I've been married for two weeks now. I do have a question. My wife got into very good shape leading up to the marriage. Now that it is over she's kind of taking a break and hasn't gone to the gym since. Is there a good way of bringing up I prefer her toned form and she should maintain it since that is easier than putting weight on and trying to shed it back off? She is pretty savvy when it comes to me trying to push her towards working out and I fear a head-on engagement on the subject. I'm thinking the best course would be to just invite her to go to the gym with me.
Xarpolis
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You're right. Say that you're going to the gym and ask her if she wants to come. Only do it if you're actually going. Let her say no once or twice. After that, say something. "So now that we're married, you don't feel you need to stay fit?" It's actually a good thing to keep each other on a bit of edge. That way you don't become complacent and shit doesn't fall apart.